"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hot personal trainer at the gym

Nasir Jones

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Ok, im new at the gym and I noticed this really hot chick the other day. About 5'10 and a perfect body (im 6'5). As i was leaving she was talking to somebody, but we made clear eye contact as I exited the gym.

The next time i go to the gym I see her again, this time I notice she's a personal trainer. Im leaving again, but this time she's behind me about 30 feet away working with someone. As im leaving I turn around and she's staring at me, and she quickly turns away. U think she's attracted to me, or pehaps sizing up a potential client?

Im going to talk to her next time i go there btw. Just want to get some advice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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COD

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ok well you ALREADY HESITATED TWICE NOW.........sheesh overthinking will be your undoing. NIKE-just do it...already.

she might have stared at your bald spot, sweat on your shorts, toilet paper hanging off your shoe...........WHO CARES what she starred at.........just turn around, wait for your window of opprtunity then say hi and do a simple extraction.

combine mystery method with a david Deangelo, say hi, speed seduce, get email/number and exit........should not take more than 2-3 minutes.

THis stuff works best if you just do it and not think about it.....
 

Nasir Jones

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COD said:
ok well you ALREADY HESITATED TWICE NOW.........sheesh overthinking will be your undoing. NIKE-just do it...already.

she might have stared at your bald spot, sweat on your shorts, toilet paper hanging off your shoe...........WHO CARES what she starred at.........just turn around, wait for your window of opprtunity then say hi and do a simple extraction.

combine mystery method with a david Deangelo, say hi, speed seduce, get email/number and exit........should not take more than 2-3 minutes.

THis stuff works best if you just do it and not think about it.....
thanks, and yes overthinking has done me in many times in the past. (btw no bald spots)
 

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Hesitation is bad. You see an opening, you go for it. Who cares if she says no?

Even if she's one in a million (which I doubt) there are three hundred people just like her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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