"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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animal crackers

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Alright, I put a picture up on HotorNot.com just to see what would happen. I got a high rating, but it's wierd.

If any of you guys have done this and know about it let me know.

The thing is there are columbs for each of the numbers where people rate you. The 5 column in mine is the HIGHEST one, and I even have a couple 4s and a couple less.

I've only had 56 votes so far, but it seems messed up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i think my 5 column is the highest too, but it has some **** to do with averaging all the scores, so im like a 7.9. But that doesnt mean most people rated me that.
 

Thraxeh

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u have to realise whos acctully voting on these sites.

you think all these hot girls will be sitting at there computer voting on hot or not ?
 

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If you're concerned with what complete strangers think of your face than this site has done absolutely nothing for you.

"You can act like a man *smack* What's the matter with you!" _ Godfather
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ghostin

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I go through that site and rate everyone a "1" just to lower their self esteem :p
 

animal crackers

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Interpol- That makes sense. There's a lot of people who just go through and press 5 or 10 for everyone.



thefonz- Where else could I get an unbiased reaction to how I look?
 

BrotherAP

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I don't know about this site, Animal Crackers, my average right now is like a 3.5 (if I average it myself, as I only have 5 votes). Damn, I must be one ugly mutha :crackup: Good thing my ego is bulletproof, or we'd have one devastated pile of a man here!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thats cheating Mindovermatter!

Anyone who posts a pick of themselves with even the slightest outline of a six-pack automatically gets 9's & 10's.

They're not judging your face, it's your body. You knew this & you only posted that to feed your presious ego.

Post a close up of your face, then see how high you get.
(i'm a 8.0 BTW)
 

Fatality

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that's true

just show a little skin

as long as you aren't carrying too much fat you will get a high rating
 

MindOverMatter

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Originally posted by diceman
Thats cheating Mindovermatter!

Anyone who posts a pick of themselves with even the slightest outline of a six-pack automatically gets 9's & 10's.

They're not judging your face, it's your body. You knew this & you only posted that to feed your presious ego.

Post a close up of your face, then see how high you get.
(i'm a 8.0 BTW)
actually I posted that pic to win a bet with a dude from my gym , but over time, it did feed the ego a bit I guess. I've had a photo with clothes on there before ( this one http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/Mind_Over_Matter/mind02.jpg ), and it was at 9.7 or so before I took it down after 140 votes.

Anyway, how is it cheating lol? You shouldn't take hot or not so seriously bro. I work hard for my body, and it's just as big of an asset as my face (also, slight outline, are you joking me?). Besides, the website is called HOT OR NOT, not rate my face lol.
 

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MoM, I gave you a 10. ;)

props to what you do and keep up the hard work. Im sure its payin off
 

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Originally posted by animal crackers

thefonz- Where else could I get an unbiased reaction to how I look?
I;ve read some of you're posts and you have some game....by looking at these scale ratings you compare yourself to other people on the site to determine where you stand physically, that creates jealousy and an element of self-doubt. We are all luminous beings, not balls of matter - to quote master yoda
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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