Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I just checked it out as well. Sign up is pretty quick. There looks like a much better looking selection of lil sex vixens on there. I never used it but if you put up your best looking pics and spam a good opener and go for the numbers quick you might be able to meet and bang better looking chicks than on POF. I'm sure that's already going on there not just AWing.ScottMustaine said:
I've never used the site but if you can spam from it and then ask them how hotornot is treating them after they reply to your opener I'd send one or two more replies then tell them you aren't on the site much feel free to give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime (Your real first name). Keep doing that till you get a bunch and call with a PLAN to meet up. Who knows? You may be able to snag several better looking chicks off there.ScottMustaine said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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marmel75 said:
Well, you can either search for people or play something called the "Encounters Game" where people get shown ur pic and asked "Do you want to meet this person?" And they can click yes maybe or no. Yes or maybe gets u a message saying so and so wants to meet you and you then vote to find out who it is.Naughty Ninja said: