"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hot or Not - 3.8

Aragon034

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wolf116 said:
hey man, you could improve that score up to a 7 with a bit of fashion and camera work.

You are not a 3.8 but that photo is a 3.8.

Maybe grow some hair, better posture, and some cool cloths and you're set.

Hit the gym for a year and you can add another point.
^ This. To a T. You could reach 7 or even higher with the right superficial look.

In the end, it's the inner game that will get you what you want, and i can tell you've got inklings if not more in you. I played violin too. It's hard. And if you're good, then yes, you have determination.


I've noticed, alot of chicks find the skinny, almost emanciated look with a nice shirt, a little chest showing, and stylish haircut to be sexy. Personally i think it's strange and should be deemed a fetish, but w/e.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Crazy, your 17 and you look fine. At your age everyone wants to be cool, hot, popular and everything else.

Believe me when I say this... Looks barely matter!! Its all about who you are as a person. You may not see it now. But, you will one day.
 

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I used to hate on you for your annoying posts and all... but coming back to the boards I figured I'd be more positive and help relate to the younger people since some people can't seem to relate to the guys in high school.

Have you watched the movie 'Kung Fu Hustle'? It's an anime-styled Martial Arts movie by the GENIUS director, Stephen Chow. It's in Chinese with subtitles. If you can get over that... it's a pretty funny. The movie isn't really inspirational regarding women and such... but it's a good movie showing Asians in really good clothes.

Let me tell you this: Asians can pull off some of the best styles off easily, without looking like they're toolbags trying too hard. It's just natural for us. Us being Asian is a natural peacocking ability. We ALREADY stand out.

Props especially if you're a good looking Asian. You already "overcame" the nerdy Asian guy stereotype.

You can wear a bandana, or a fedora (like this scene in Kung Fu Hustle [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Q4fXU3j3R4] 1:17, or [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9rIyE9V-BQ] 0:11)
 

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Alle_Gory said:
He is Chinese. Notice his username? He looks like a regular guy with an ugly shirt and no hairstyle.

Ce prosti spui.
Pentru mine sunt asiatici si turcii, rusii, mongolii, indienii etc. nu doar chinezii *** vad ca ai tu impresia.

Oricum ma bucur sa vad romani pe aici, poate schimbam un id de im si mai comunicam.

Bafta!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's not a very flattering picture. If you dressed a little up (shirt with collar even) and shot in better light, better pose, better expression on face, you could get a better score.

Get a friend who knows something about portraiture to shoot you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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