"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aragon034

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wolf116 said:
hey man, you could improve that score up to a 7 with a bit of fashion and camera work.

You are not a 3.8 but that photo is a 3.8.

Maybe grow some hair, better posture, and some cool cloths and you're set.

Hit the gym for a year and you can add another point.
^ This. To a T. You could reach 7 or even higher with the right superficial look.

In the end, it's the inner game that will get you what you want, and i can tell you've got inklings if not more in you. I played violin too. It's hard. And if you're good, then yes, you have determination.


I've noticed, alot of chicks find the skinny, almost emanciated look with a nice shirt, a little chest showing, and stylish haircut to be sexy. Personally i think it's strange and should be deemed a fetish, but w/e.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Crazy, your 17 and you look fine. At your age everyone wants to be cool, hot, popular and everything else.

Believe me when I say this... Looks barely matter!! Its all about who you are as a person. You may not see it now. But, you will one day.
 

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I used to hate on you for your annoying posts and all... but coming back to the boards I figured I'd be more positive and help relate to the younger people since some people can't seem to relate to the guys in high school.

Have you watched the movie 'Kung Fu Hustle'? It's an anime-styled Martial Arts movie by the GENIUS director, Stephen Chow. It's in Chinese with subtitles. If you can get over that... it's a pretty funny. The movie isn't really inspirational regarding women and such... but it's a good movie showing Asians in really good clothes.

Let me tell you this: Asians can pull off some of the best styles off easily, without looking like they're toolbags trying too hard. It's just natural for us. Us being Asian is a natural peacocking ability. We ALREADY stand out.

Props especially if you're a good looking Asian. You already "overcame" the nerdy Asian guy stereotype.

You can wear a bandana, or a fedora (like this scene in Kung Fu Hustle [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Q4fXU3j3R4] 1:17, or [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9rIyE9V-BQ] 0:11)
 

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Alle_Gory said:
He is Chinese. Notice his username? He looks like a regular guy with an ugly shirt and no hairstyle.

Ce prosti spui.
Pentru mine sunt asiatici si turcii, rusii, mongolii, indienii etc. nu doar chinezii *** vad ca ai tu impresia.

Oricum ma bucur sa vad romani pe aici, poate schimbam un id de im si mai comunicam.

Bafta!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's not a very flattering picture. If you dressed a little up (shirt with collar even) and shot in better light, better pose, better expression on face, you could get a better score.

Get a friend who knows something about portraiture to shoot you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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