You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It doesn't have to be with the face, name often match with personality.Wyldfire said:Let's see how good you guys are in matching a woman's name with her face.
Wyldfire said:You guys are too much, lol. One of the most beautiful women I've ever known had an old lady name. One of the most unattractive women I've ever known had a name commonly used by strippers, lol.
Let's see how good you guys are in matching a woman's name with her face.
My picture is in my profile (click on my name).
What is my name out of this list:
The list inclues: My 3 grandmothers (My father was adopted, so I include his birth mother and adopted mother's names), my mother, my 3 sisters, my two daughters and my niece. See who can guess which names are me, my 3 grandmothers, my mother, my sisters, my daughters and my niece. You can also list a couple of words about what kind of person you think each were or are and I'll tell you how close you are. The names are all listed in alphabetical order so as not to give any clues.
Aimee
Bailey
Dorothea
Julie
Marcia
Mary
Meagan
Myrtle
Nola
Norma
Shannon
dude from my experience, Tiffany is the standard UG name. all the Tiffany's ive ever seen have been fat and uglyCall_Me_Daddy said:I can see all of those being names for UGs, and I have. Except maybe Tiffany.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Shannon on the list is definitely fiesty and hardheaded. The rest is off.DJDamage said:It doesn't have to be with the face, name often match with personality.
I am guessing your name is Shannon because every shannon I met or knew was a fiesty hardheaded trouble maker who cannot admit being wrong.
Or it could be Julie since girls by the name of Julie tend to have a superiority complex.
You guys are supposed to guess which names are for which people...not just guess which name is mine.Raikojo17 said:im guessin either Shannon or meagan
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
omg that is so ****in trueDJDamage said:It doesn't have to be with the face, name often match with personality.
I am guessing your name is Shannon because every shannon I met or knew was a fiesty hardheaded trouble maker who cannot admit being wrong.
Or it could be Julie since girls by the name of Julie tend to have a superiority complex.
Stop trying to hijack the thread you attention *****, go make your own damn thread. That has nothing to do with this thread.Wyldfire said:C'mon guys...go through the whole list of names and post the impression you get from the name and whether you think it is a grandmother, mother, sister, daughter, niece or me.
Um...hijacking a thread is when you start a fight or don't post about the topic, which is female names.PeterNorthisawesome said:Stop trying to hijack the thread you attention *****, go make your own damn thread. That has nothing to do with this thread.
Another Ugly chick name that guys should avoid at all costs:
- Wyldfire
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.