"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hot lesbian in one of my classes

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Straight up lesbian. Not bi - does not like the ****. She said she only has had one boyfriend before and it was in like the 8th grade.

Who has gamed a lesbian here? Any advice?

I was flirting with this dyke in class today and the convo kinda went like this:

HB: You're from [town] ?
me: yah, you are too?
HB: I lived there until 7th grade.
me: That's funny.. I bet you know some people I know.
HB: Do you know Stacie?
me: I know her very well..
HB: What does that mean?
me: It means that I know her very well [with a funny ass smirk]
HB: Did you used to date her or something?
me: Date? No.
HB: What about [like 4 different people]
me: I know them all.. I used to date Melissa, lol.

Can't remember how it transitioned into this:

HB: So, what about your girlfriend?
me: Which one?
HB: ... You have more than one?
me: I have a lot of girlfriends
HB: lol....
me: What about your BOYFRIEND?
HB: I have a girlfriend..
me: lol.. get the **** out of here.
HB: I'm serious..
me: How long have you been dating? (I still didn't buy it at this point)
HB: About a month.
me: That is awesome.. But, you know you would **** me.
HB: laughs
me: When is the last time you had a boyfriend?
HB: like 8th grade..

Just some more bull **** talk the rest of the class.. I couldn't believe this ****.. It is like a gift from god. Finally, a challenge for me. And since we have similar friends on myspace/facebook I looked and she indeed is a dyke.

Anyone have advice who have tried gaming a lesbian in the past?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok you can do this but you need to keep it light and playful.. become her "friend" but keep her guessing.. so take her out as a friend adn lagh adn have a good time but make very subtle moves to let her know you want her... she can be had but it will have to be very spontanious...
 

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I have gamed a bi-sexual girl but, not a lesbian. You can use all your Dj techniques in creating attraction. But, I'd say you won't get far. You should just make friends with her. Cause she could have some hot bi-sexual friends you can game!
 

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I have gamed a bi-sexual girl but, not a lesbian. You can use all your Dj techniques in creating attraction. But, I'd say you won't get far. You should just make friends with her. Cause she could have some hot bi-sexual friends you can game!
Yea . Be friend with her . She can also be good wing . I hope she's not going to steal your girls :D .
 

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I have gamed a bi-sexual girl but, not a lesbian. You can use all your Dj techniques in creating attraction. But, I'd say you won't get far. You should just make friends with her. Cause she could have some hot bi-sexual friends you can game!
Yeah, I figured I would most likely end up in the friends zone.

**** being friends with her.. I want to **** her so I can say I ****ed a lesbian.. I may tell her that word for word actually.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol....you wanna f.uck her so you can say you f.ucked a lesbian? :rolleyes:

Thats called, "gaming for validation" and is the mark of the AFC.

Waste of time IMO.
 

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L777 said:
lol....you wanna f.uck her so you can say you f.ucked a lesbian? :rolleyes:

Thats called, "gaming for validation" and is the mark of the AFC.

Waste of time IMO.
Yeah, I am an AFC, because I want to f.uck a lesbian.. Wow you're a ****ing idiot.
 

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Yeah, I am an AFC, because I want to f.uck a lesbian.. Wow you're a ****ing idiot.
No, you're an AFC because you boast, and game for validation, rather than posting constructive reports that will help others and gaming for the love of the sex itself, and nothing else.

There's a difference.
 

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Who cares if he boasts? That's like saying Tucker Max is AFC because he fvucks old ladies, midgets, and amputees for fun, and writes about them in his book. And I think we can agree Tucker Max is not AFC.

How about instead of creating your own meanings of the term, you look at the definition? AFC means average frustrated chump. If you have the game to fvuck a lesbian, that's definitely not average, and you're not frustrated! So how's it AFC?
He is a complete tool & AFC. He is frustrated and jealous that I am having success. He has been spewing garbage in all my threads.

He is a clown - no worries.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've gamed a lesbian. TRUST ME. DON'T TREAD IN THESE SITUATIONS. Birds of the feather flock together. They haven't chose **** for a reason. Most of them have tried it once or twice, and still want to be lesbian. Thinking you are going to be the man that changes the ways they are so set in, is VERY VERY foolish. I am speaking with PERSONAL experience here. Just spare yourself the drama and wait for someone else to cross your path.

It is like a gift from god. Finally, a challenge for me.
No. Not a challenge. A snipe hunt.
 

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For them, fvcking a dude is probably like one of us fvcking a dude. There's absolutely ZERO biological urge to do it, the very thought of it probably disgusts them. Unless she's a fake-lesbian in which case she might be swayed to the d!ck, but chances are that's not the case. Being friends with a lesbian is great though. They're usually fun if they're not real man-haters. :rockon:
 

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WhitePimp said:
For them, fvcking a dude is probably like one of us fvcking a dude. There's absolutely ZERO biological urge to do it, the very thought of it probably disgusts them. Unless she's a fake-lesbian in which case she might be swayed to the d!ck, but chances are that's not the case. Being friends with a lesbian is great though. They're usually fun if they're not real man-haters. :rockon:
^^ this is true since homosexuality is very much a mental disorder that manifests in the for of deviant sexual behaviour.. BUt its one of those illnesses deemed socially and economically acceptable.
 

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^^ this is true since homosexuality is very much a mental disorder that manifests in the for of deviant sexual behaviour.. BUt its one of those illnesses deemed socially and economically acceptable.
Mental disorder? I thought fags were guys with missing chromosomes!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Straight up lesbian. Not bi - does not like the ****. She said she only has had one boyfriend before and it was in like the 8th grade.

Who has gamed a lesbian here? Any advice?

I was flirting with this dyke in class today and the convo kinda went like this:

HB: You're from [town] ?
me: yah, you are too?
HB: I lived there until 7th grade.
me: That's funny.. I bet you know some people I know.
HB: Do you know Stacie?
me: I know her very well..
HB: What does that mean?
me: It means that I know her very well [with a funny ass smirk]
HB: Did you used to date her or something?
me: Date? No.
HB: What about [like 4 different people]
me: I know them all.. I used to date Melissa, lol.

Can't remember how it transitioned into this:

HB: So, what about your girlfriend?
me: Which one?
HB: ... You have more than one?
me: I have a lot of girlfriends
HB: lol....
me: What about your BOYFRIEND?
HB: I have a girlfriend..
me: lol.. get the **** out of here.
HB: I'm serious..
me: How long have you been dating? (I still didn't buy it at this point)
HB: About a month.
me: That is awesome.. But, you know you would **** me.
HB: laughs
me: When is the last time you had a boyfriend?
HB: like 8th grade..

Just some more bull **** talk the rest of the class.. I couldn't believe this ****.. It is like a gift from god. Finally, a challenge for me. And since we have similar friends on myspace/facebook I looked and she indeed is a dyke.

Anyone have advice who have tried gaming a lesbian in the past?
Lesbians, to me personally, are repulsive freaks, like Golem from Lord of the Rings. They are worthless to me, and are generally "manhaters" You will lose out to a woman. They want vagina, not sausage, get used to it.
 
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