You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LMFAO @ the 31 year old pedo!!! :crackup: :crackup:stuka1939 said:No, I am no pedophile, but come on, WE ALL LOOK. Most 14-17 year old girls look 18+ anyway.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Funny you should say that. I'll write in bold if i want. Youve been here for how long? a month. I been here for about four years...i have more of a right to be here than you newbie. Only reason why i ripped into Stucka is because he deserves it.DarthAngel707 said:Ken785, you're annoying as hell, you don't belong here, you belong in the kiddie forums. Stop writing in bold too, nobody's really paying attention to what your saying anyway. When I glance at your posts, I'm like, "Here's the kid again. next post."
And I take it your Chinese since your from San Francisco and mentioned you were Asian. Here's a bold one for you:
STOP MAKING ASIANS LOOK BAD.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.