You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hahahahahahahahahahaha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Darth said:Ohio State.
^ Yep ^SmoothTalker said:Choosing which school to go to based on the availability of hot chicks is moronic.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, you're right about that football game, but there plenty of hot girls at OSU. Don't know where you're looking, but there are over 50,000 people...you can't have seen them all, loltoddlips said:hahahahahahahahahahaha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
OSU sucks! Academics, people, hygiene, and especially girls. If you want a bland 5 or 6 I guess. But then you'll have to put up with their need to be triple teamed a night later.
The only thing OSU is good for is losing big football games.
St. Joseph's, in Patchogue, Long Island. Damn, are the girls there hot. Playboy material. I was there back in 2003. I'm not sure if it's still loaded with "porn queens" though, like it was when I visited the campus. Check it out.Jamal said:This may sound stupid but I am just curious to know which colleges in NY have the most hot girls because I just don't want to go to a college with all ugly chicks.