When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hahahahahahahahahahaha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Darth said:Ohio State.
^ Yep ^SmoothTalker said:Choosing which school to go to based on the availability of hot chicks is moronic.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dude, you're right about that football game, but there plenty of hot girls at OSU. Don't know where you're looking, but there are over 50,000 people...you can't have seen them all, loltoddlips said:hahahahahahahahahahaha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
OSU sucks! Academics, people, hygiene, and especially girls. If you want a bland 5 or 6 I guess. But then you'll have to put up with their need to be triple teamed a night later.
The only thing OSU is good for is losing big football games.
St. Joseph's, in Patchogue, Long Island. Damn, are the girls there hot. Playboy material. I was there back in 2003. I'm not sure if it's still loaded with "porn queens" though, like it was when I visited the campus. Check it out.Jamal said:This may sound stupid but I am just curious to know which colleges in NY have the most hot girls because I just don't want to go to a college with all ugly chicks.