"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hot girls any different?

willtmail

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Hey all,

Do you guys think that hot girls are different than any other types of people? I mean, it's obvious Dave Deangelo does - but then again, he's trying to sell his product.

I personally think if you're fun and cool (sociable, etc.), then people will just want to be around you - including hot girls. That's just my opinion. Thoughts?

Take care.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skel

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Of course they are different. Since high school they have been stared at, hit on, complimented, and given things by AFC's every day. They are use to different types of treatment by other people. Girls want to be like them and guys want to be with them. Dont you think this would effect the mind state?
 

willtmail

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Really what I meant was do you think they have to be treated differently - in other words, a lot of what DYD is comes down to "you can be friendly and cool and other guys and maybe ugly chicks will like you, but to really make it with the hot girls, you have to be this: ****y & funny." You don't think that you can just be a chill person and still kick it with the ladies?
 

ToP DoN

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yes they are

since they are cuter they are probably skinner and weigh less...so its easier to smack them around and harder for them to fight back...so yes...id rather date a small asian chick...easier to smack around
 

am4591

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ToP DoN:

Hmm...judging from your posts on other threads, it looks like your stock answer to handling any problem with women is to slap the b!tch around and then fvck her. Do you ever actually get girls? Not trying to be a wise guy, just curious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joey37

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Yeah, he sounds like a woman beating pvssy. The next time you feel like slapping someone, message me, I'll give you a different perspective.
 
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