I think the main problem lies in the fact that she looks almost exactly like a former oneitis of mine (only less cute and more hot). Anyone else been in this situation? I told myself to just concentrate on school and just appreciate the attention but everytime she gives me one of those looks, I start thinking "Why not?" She has been checking me out for over a year now (I'm surprise her interest was this long considering the fact that I don't consider myself drop dead gorgeous). What would you do?
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Hot Girl Shows Interest But I'm Too Insecure To Go For It!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Just do it. There really is nothing else except regret.
IamtheAlphamale
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goto the mall and bring a friend and make that friend **** talk you until you start getting lots of rejections. If you do this you will have a chance with her otherwise when you start twitching when you ask her out you will lose her.
I don't consider myself drop dead gorgeous either, but boy is it fun to chase the good looking ones. Do something about it.
If you're REALLY hung up on her, find one flaw about her. It's proof she isn't this perfect creature. THEN do something about it.
If you're REALLY hung up on her, find one flaw about her. It's proof she isn't this perfect creature. THEN do something about it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm not that hung-up on her and I'm not sure if out personalities match. She's hardworking but I get the vibe that she thinks making money is everything, which is a philosophy that I'm not all about. But then again, I haven't really talked to her one-on-one but only through a group of people. I do, sometimes, feel like I'm blowing an opportunity but maybe it's only because of how she looks. Physical attraction is a must (I've dated women I wasn't physically attracted to and it just doesn't work) but I know looks aren't the be all, end all.
dynamicallyidle
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It's all about mentality. Don't you hate the regret of not having gone for it and asking yourself "What if" more than any rejection could hurt?
PigAdlemPimp
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You are a wuss dude, if you know this hot babe likes you it should be very easy to ask her out, pull your head in and fvck the b!tch.
How can it be that she is hotter than your ex girlfreind who is cuter than her, this doesn't make any sence, hot and cute are the same thing. :yes:
How can it be that she is hotter than your ex girlfreind who is cuter than her, this doesn't make any sence, hot and cute are the same thing. :yes: