"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hot girl seemingly likes me but..

GaryUranga

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shes shy, this happens a lot, I have trouble creatign confort because Im a bit nervous myself but I keep missing lots of chances because of these ****ing AFC Hot girls, theres this one whos a solid 8, gorgeous face, not too social I only see her taling to 2 other girls in class if any at all, Im there talkign to 7 people everyones callign my name, beign loud in class proyecting my voice real good, all that jazz, shes shy, I would say Im above average looking, these 8s are NERVOUS around me, and its not advancing because theyre too scared of me! freaking BS

any wise word of advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crazy Asian

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build comfort.
 
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