"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hot girl seemingly likes me but..

GaryUranga

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shes shy, this happens a lot, I have trouble creatign confort because Im a bit nervous myself but I keep missing lots of chances because of these ****ing AFC Hot girls, theres this one whos a solid 8, gorgeous face, not too social I only see her taling to 2 other girls in class if any at all, Im there talkign to 7 people everyones callign my name, beign loud in class proyecting my voice real good, all that jazz, shes shy, I would say Im above average looking, these 8s are NERVOUS around me, and its not advancing because theyre too scared of me! freaking BS

any wise word of advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crazy Asian

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build comfort.
 
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