"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Hot girl from the library

B

bcolon

Don Juan
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
97
Reaction score
0
Location
United States
Was she keeping direct eye contact? Sounds like its worth a shot. But seems to bland at the same time because you know nothing about her. You should of asked what books do you recommend or what are you reading. Have her talk about herself and then you can get clues about her and see if she is interesting. If YOU think she is worth your time then ask her blatantly do you want to go out for some coffee. That will come off weird because you know nothing about her. I would start off slow and ask questions about her. You pass the ice breaker so she knows you now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

B

BigSmooth

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2011
Messages
374
Reaction score
17
Location
Texas
Thank God finally the first step is taken. Good job.


Now, get it movin' bud. Try to talk to her again, so she will know the first wasn't some fluke.
 
D

DJ_Dave

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2012
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
Thanks smooth. Yeah obviously i'm going to talk to her again and see what her reaction is and go from there. She seemed nice enough anyway and I was going to suggest we get some coffee as a revision break but I wasn't sure if it was too soon. Also, I imagine getting asked out in the library is a bit weird but I can't do it anywhere else.
 
D

DJ_Dave

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2012
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
Right, I messed up as she wasn't at the library today and is now finished exams so I won't see her again. However, I happen to have seen her on Facebook. I wouldn't normally but seeing as I have no other option should I add her and ask her for coffee?
 
B

BigSmooth

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2011
Messages
374
Reaction score
17
Location
Texas
DJ_Dave said:
Right, I messed up as she wasn't at the library today and is now finished exams so I won't see her again. However, I happen to have seen her on Facebook. I wouldn't normally but seeing as I have no other option should I add her and ask her for coffee?
Click to expand...

If you think you're never going to run into her again, I would recommend getting in touch with her through facebook.

Hey, I mean it can't hurt right? Worst thing she can say is no. Best thing that could happen is well...up to your imagination. :cheer:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

D

DJ_Dave

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 3, 2012
Messages
40
Reaction score
0
Right, I added her on facebook and thought I might aswell be direct so asked if she fancied going for coffee. This was a day and a half ago and nothing so she's obviously not interested. It's just that I feel a bit **** not because she's not interested but that I didn't even get a reply. I mean, I kind of wanted some sort of reaction but I think she must have been creeped out by it. How would you expect someone to react to being asked out for coffee who you would recognise but don't know? I'd at least be polite if I wasn't interested and say so. I'd be happier if she'd said "No thanks, get lost creep."
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top