"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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piday314

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I'd love to hear some experiences here on this kind of scenario.

So there is a girl you see often at a big class you attend. You see her two times a week or so, and she seems to think pretty highly of herself. One day, after weeks of passing her by, never having said so much as 'hi' or held extended eye contact, she decides that she wants to start dropping some pretty big IOIs. She's making it obvious that you want to open her, and making it easy to do so, by sitting next to you in class. She's acting weird, looking at you sideways, pointing her body in your direction, you catch her staring and she quickly looks away, etc.

But you're just too busy that day, you have other **** on your mind, you don't feel like dealing with a woman of any kind -- so as quietly as she gives you her "open me" invitation, you completely ignore it. There she is 5ft away, and she barely seems to exist to you.

When class ends, her body language turns extremely negative, and you can tell, even though she hasn't said a WORD, she is pissed or at least frustrated you didn't open her. You know what I'm talking about.

Say you've decided that you want to hook up with this chick now. What is the optimal DJ way to move forward in your opinion?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ignore her a bit again. then, when she doesnt expect it, lock eyes with her and smile. You are in control.
 

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piday314 said:
I'd love to hear some experiences here on this kind of scenario.

So there is a girl you see often at a big class you attend. You see her two times a week or so, and she seems to think pretty highly of herself. One day, after weeks of passing her by, never having said so much as 'hi' or held extended eye contact, she decides that she wants to start dropping some pretty big IOIs. She's making it obvious that you want to open her, and making it easy to do so, by sitting next to you in class. She's acting weird, looking at you sideways, pointing her body in your direction, you catch her staring and she quickly looks away, etc.

But you're just too busy that day, you have other **** on your mind, you don't feel like dealing with a woman of any kind -- so as quietly as she gives you her "open me" invitation, you completely ignore it. There she is 5ft away, and she barely seems to exist to you.

When class ends, her body language turns extremely negative, and you can tell, even though she hasn't said a WORD, she is pissed or at least frustrated you didn't open her. You know what I'm talking about.

Say you've decided that you want to hook up with this chick now. What is the optimal DJ way to move forward in your opinion?
Well, it depends. This sounds to me like two high school kids playing...It is bettr to post this in the high school section and someone there may better relate.

Secondly, post your damn age.
 

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I'm going through the same ordeal, except at work and I'm ignoring her for obvious reasons. She isn't taking it too well, and she's resorted to being especially rude and obnoxious towards other female co-workers with whom I'm in better standing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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piday314 said:
I'd love to hear some experiences here on this kind of scenario.

She seems to think pretty highly of herself.

Big surprise lol.

One day, after weeks of passing her by, never having said so much as 'hi' or held extended eye contact, she decides that she wants to start dropping some pretty big IOIs. She's making it obvious that you want to open her, and making it easy to do so, by sitting next to you in class. She's acting weird, looking at you sideways, pointing her body in your direction, you catch her staring and she quickly looks away, etc.

She definitely sounds interested.


But you're just too busy that day, you have other **** on your mind, you don't feel like dealing with a woman of any kind -- so as quietly as she gives you her "open me" invitation, you completely ignore it. There she is 5ft away, and she barely seems to exist to you.

When class ends, her body language turns extremely negative, and you can tell, even though she hasn't said a WORD, she is pissed or at least frustrated you didn't open her. You know what I'm talking about.

Say you've decided that you want to hook up with this chick now. What is the optimal DJ way to move forward in your opinion?
The problem is opportunites don't usually come when we want them too. It's often when you least feel like gaming that it happens.

Maybe ignore her for most of the next class, then open her at the end. She's p*ssed at you right now, so she might be a bit standoffish at first. Don't let that affect you. Just chat with her anyway.
 

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Hi, thanks for some of your answers. Yeah, this is def a case of an opportunity presenting itself when I just wasn't in the mood.

I'm 25 btw.
 

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Girls want what they can't have...

You want to know what will kill her attraction to you?

You turning into a complete tool aboslutely all over her and interested in her.

Turn up that jerk game! Be short, succinct, ****y, aloof. Tease and neg her a little bit
 
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