"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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piday314

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I'd love to hear some experiences here on this kind of scenario.

So there is a girl you see often at a big class you attend. You see her two times a week or so, and she seems to think pretty highly of herself. One day, after weeks of passing her by, never having said so much as 'hi' or held extended eye contact, she decides that she wants to start dropping some pretty big IOIs. She's making it obvious that you want to open her, and making it easy to do so, by sitting next to you in class. She's acting weird, looking at you sideways, pointing her body in your direction, you catch her staring and she quickly looks away, etc.

But you're just too busy that day, you have other **** on your mind, you don't feel like dealing with a woman of any kind -- so as quietly as she gives you her "open me" invitation, you completely ignore it. There she is 5ft away, and she barely seems to exist to you.

When class ends, her body language turns extremely negative, and you can tell, even though she hasn't said a WORD, she is pissed or at least frustrated you didn't open her. You know what I'm talking about.

Say you've decided that you want to hook up with this chick now. What is the optimal DJ way to move forward in your opinion?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ignore her a bit again. then, when she doesnt expect it, lock eyes with her and smile. You are in control.
 

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piday314 said:
I'd love to hear some experiences here on this kind of scenario.

So there is a girl you see often at a big class you attend. You see her two times a week or so, and she seems to think pretty highly of herself. One day, after weeks of passing her by, never having said so much as 'hi' or held extended eye contact, she decides that she wants to start dropping some pretty big IOIs. She's making it obvious that you want to open her, and making it easy to do so, by sitting next to you in class. She's acting weird, looking at you sideways, pointing her body in your direction, you catch her staring and she quickly looks away, etc.

But you're just too busy that day, you have other **** on your mind, you don't feel like dealing with a woman of any kind -- so as quietly as she gives you her "open me" invitation, you completely ignore it. There she is 5ft away, and she barely seems to exist to you.

When class ends, her body language turns extremely negative, and you can tell, even though she hasn't said a WORD, she is pissed or at least frustrated you didn't open her. You know what I'm talking about.

Say you've decided that you want to hook up with this chick now. What is the optimal DJ way to move forward in your opinion?
Well, it depends. This sounds to me like two high school kids playing...It is bettr to post this in the high school section and someone there may better relate.

Secondly, post your damn age.
 

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I'm going through the same ordeal, except at work and I'm ignoring her for obvious reasons. She isn't taking it too well, and she's resorted to being especially rude and obnoxious towards other female co-workers with whom I'm in better standing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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piday314 said:
I'd love to hear some experiences here on this kind of scenario.

She seems to think pretty highly of herself.

Big surprise lol.

One day, after weeks of passing her by, never having said so much as 'hi' or held extended eye contact, she decides that she wants to start dropping some pretty big IOIs. She's making it obvious that you want to open her, and making it easy to do so, by sitting next to you in class. She's acting weird, looking at you sideways, pointing her body in your direction, you catch her staring and she quickly looks away, etc.

She definitely sounds interested.


But you're just too busy that day, you have other **** on your mind, you don't feel like dealing with a woman of any kind -- so as quietly as she gives you her "open me" invitation, you completely ignore it. There she is 5ft away, and she barely seems to exist to you.

When class ends, her body language turns extremely negative, and you can tell, even though she hasn't said a WORD, she is pissed or at least frustrated you didn't open her. You know what I'm talking about.

Say you've decided that you want to hook up with this chick now. What is the optimal DJ way to move forward in your opinion?
The problem is opportunites don't usually come when we want them too. It's often when you least feel like gaming that it happens.

Maybe ignore her for most of the next class, then open her at the end. She's p*ssed at you right now, so she might be a bit standoffish at first. Don't let that affect you. Just chat with her anyway.
 

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Hi, thanks for some of your answers. Yeah, this is def a case of an opportunity presenting itself when I just wasn't in the mood.

I'm 25 btw.
 

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Girls want what they can't have...

You want to know what will kill her attraction to you?

You turning into a complete tool aboslutely all over her and interested in her.

Turn up that jerk game! Be short, succinct, ****y, aloof. Tease and neg her a little bit
 
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