"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hot chicks prefer men with short hair

sapphire

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I have noticed that the hottest girls I have seen are almost always with men who have very short hair or even bald (Vin Diesel style). This is especially true with men who are also muscular. Therefore if you are muscular or have a good body and have short hair or are clean shaven bald, you will physically attract hot females.

Also, every time I get my hair cut very short, the ladies, especially the hot ones, seem to check me out more. The fact that I am also muscular also helps I suppose.

I guess all this relates to the fact that the more feminine a girl is the more attracted she is to her masculine counterpart.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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frivolousz21

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I completely agree with you here....when my hair get long at all..it seems I get looked at or hit on much less.

when I get that low low close to shave cut...women look at me like im some manly beast! having a nice body helps to!
 

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hm...last summer i shaved my head. It's hard to say i can agree on this.

But on the other hand, when i had shorter hair (than i do now) that was geled, i get more looks from girls than i do now with my cap.
 

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If you are losing your hair do not dispair.

Just shave it all off and go to the gym and get jacked. I guarantee that you will attract many females.
 

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Nice theory, it makes sense since women think on an instinctual level. They want a manly man, etc. I'm almost always faded so my hair is real short.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by sapphire
I have noticed that the hottest girls I have seen are almost always with men who have very short hair or even bald (Vin Diesel style). This is especially true with men who are also muscular. Therefore if you are muscular or have a good body and have short hair or are clean shaven bald, you will physically attract hot females.

Also, every time I get my hair cut very short, the ladies, especially the hot ones, seem to check me out more. The fact that I am also muscular also helps I suppose.

I guess all this relates to the fact that the more feminine a girl is the more attracted she is to her masculine counterpart.

It doesn't matter if you have long hair or short hair-if you know how to "TALK" to a woman she will fall for you-its as simple as that.
All women are not the same-They all have different tastes as do we.
 

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This is an interesting post as I am considering shaving my hair down to a number 2, as I am loosing it. I have an atheletic build but need to bulk up more.
 

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I go with a 1 on the back and sides...with a fade to a 2 on top.

Ive had the most compliments in my life on this look.


if you dont have the best hair..then do it!
 

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actuly i get most looks not when its long or short, well still quite short, but about 2 weeks after being cut.

I also remember seeing the exact same post but saying girls like long hair, so i dont think im gona shave my hair off just this second.
 

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Seems that shorter hair gives "confidence" to many people. If that's the case, go for it.

Otherwise, the size of your hair doesn't really matter as long as it's neat/tidy/clean and consistent with your style.

Consistency is the key here. People who are consistent will feel more comfortable in their skin which comes off as confidence to the outer world.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"0" Buzz for me on the sides. Everytime I say ZERO the barber goes u sure, Im like- yeah my hair grows back within a week.

I get a haircut once a month. My fiancee actually likes my hair when its longer..But I prefer it shorter since I dont have to comb it as much..
 

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Agreed.. many women find short hair sexy... i just got mine trimmed to a no 4.. i grow it then get it cut short...
 

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I have to agree with this. About a month ago i went for my haircut. I had it styled decently and the girl cut it damn short.... i felt like a straight up pimp so maybe my attitude was projected out a bit more, but anyway i got 2 hi's from girls as i walked out and looks from everywhere.
 

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There are many factors that can make short/long look good on some people like facial shape, etc. Most of you think that because short hair is more masculine, then therefore HOT chicks like it more. That's bull****. Not everything is controlled by evolutionary science. If it was like that, then you probably ONLY like girls with long hair. I used to get hair cuts every two weeks and it was short and well kept. I Look good with a fresh hair cut and got many looks. now, I haven't gotten a haircut in 3 months and when I get a shape up, I get as much attention as ever. IS NOT THE LENGTH OF THE HAIR THAT COUNTS, IT'S HOW WELL MAINTAINED IT LOOKS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Reach

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I bought myelf a shaver and it's cool, but not my hair has grown back a bit. I think the fact is when you look at the likes of antonio banderas, anthony keidis etc you see examples of famous people who have/had long hair and ****ed a lot.

I can't recall how if I was better recieved with shorter hair or not... I'm always man pretty.
 

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ive had short hair all my life and so everyone had grown to know me with short hair but a while( about 6 months actually) i decided i wanted to let it grow and let it do so until a few days ago and the girls really liked my hair being longer, but my gf prefers me having short hair so i got it cut, but not too short.
 

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"when I get that low low close to shave cut...women look at me like im some manly beast!"

Manly beast-- wouldn't that imply long hair, full flowing beard and animal skins?? :D

Seriously, some like long, some like short! What do you like???
 

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Kind of on the subject:
anyone here ever tried one of those things on the net where you submit a digital pic of your face and you can see how you'd look with different haircuts?
Not sure what its actually called but you know what i mean.
So you can see what sort of haircut suits you best before you have it done.
If anyone has, what do you find are the best/cheapest sites? - i remember finding one once but it cost a sh!tload.
 

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well no sh1t. You look like an unclean tool with stupid shaggy unkempt hair.

That's why I wear mine short.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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