"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot chick at Smoothie place Drive-Thru

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I frequent this place often on my break at work, we've had some light fluff talk.

How would I take this further without making it awkward if she doesn't go for it? Would like to continue going there for the food

I've never done a drive thru pick up or at a place I often go to.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I snagged a bank teller that way after having her do my
deposits about 5 different times over 2 months and bantering the small talk each time.

write your cel number on your business card.
And something short like: Let's do lunch some time :)

After she hands you your order and your set to go, hand it
to her and say: "this is for you" and smile at her then leave.

If she's interested she will call or text you within a few days like mine did.
 
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That's pretty good.

What if she doesn't contact me and just brags to her co-workers or something, I imagine it'd make going back there a little awkward
 
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tryst type said:
That's pretty good.

What if she doesn't contact me and just brags to her co-workers or something, I imagine it'd make going back there a little awkward
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Eat somewhere else then.
 
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Make her laugh. Seriously.

That kind of job must be so dull, same thing over, over, over and over again.

Make her laugh and brighten up her day. Then ask for her number - never give your number.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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