"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hot chick at Smoothie place Drive-Thru

tryst type

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I frequent this place often on my break at work, we've had some light fluff talk.

How would I take this further without making it awkward if she doesn't go for it? Would like to continue going there for the food

I've never done a drive thru pick up or at a place I often go to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pdx1138

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I snagged a bank teller that way after having her do my
deposits about 5 different times over 2 months and bantering the small talk each time.

write your cel number on your business card.
And something short like: Let's do lunch some time :)

After she hands you your order and your set to go, hand it
to her and say: "this is for you" and smile at her then leave.

If she's interested she will call or text you within a few days like mine did.
 

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That's pretty good.

What if she doesn't contact me and just brags to her co-workers or something, I imagine it'd make going back there a little awkward
 

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tryst type said:
That's pretty good.

What if she doesn't contact me and just brags to her co-workers or something, I imagine it'd make going back there a little awkward
Eat somewhere else then.
 

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Make her laugh. Seriously.

That kind of job must be so dull, same thing over, over, over and over again.

Make her laugh and brighten up her day. Then ask for her number - never give your number.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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