Hot chick added me on Facebook. What's next?

[Slash Dolo]

I've been single and spinning plates for almost two years now and enjoying myself. However most of the girls I've either bagged off Tinder or through parties or whatever.

Hot chick adds me on Facebook. She likes several older pictures of mine so she's all but saying she's interested. I've always went with the "invite to something that doesn't sound like a date" approach that doesn't really show any interest to good effect when it comes to Facebook chicks, but I haven't really picked up a girl up from social media going on 2 years now. If any of you guys have any particular methods for online pickup I'd love to hear them. I'm probably overthinking it, but my online game's a bit rusty (I deleted Tinder 6 months ago as well) and I don't want to be too aloof/disinterested which is how I seem to be coming off nowadays.

 

[RangerMIke]

My advice would be to not do on-line dating and don't mix social media with dating, it's friends and family, not women.

It's not a good way to build attraction, it's just a media for women looking for attention.

 

[grayclif]

She didnt add you. You added her. It means nothing and all you are doing is feeding her need for attention.

She went through your page and has already determined what kind of person you are (in her mind at least). So now going forward whatever you tell her she'll compare to what she has already seen about you on your Facebook posts. And if something doesn't add up she'll go back to Facebook to check.

When they send me a friend request I ignore it. If they ask me why I didn't add them I say I use Facebook for family and business. I can see them mouth the word "azzhole" and I like it.

 

[Slash Dolo]

She didnt add you. You added her. It means nothing and all you are doing is feeding her need for attention.

She went through your page and has already determined what kind of person you are (in her mind at least). So now going forward whatever you tell her she'll compare to what she has already seen about you on your Facebook posts. And if something doesn't add up she'll go back to Facebook to check.

When they send me a friend request I ignore it. If they ask me why I didn't add them I say I use Facebook for family and business. I can see them mouth the word "azzhole" and I like it.

Nope. She added me. I barely use Facebook anymore. Just surf to see what friends are doing. There isn't much to compare to besides a few pictures.

I agree with you guys about the "girls just looking for attention" thing but I've picked up girls on social media before. It's really not as taboo as you guys are making it out to be and it is doable, just gotta stop the moment you see a red flag.

 

[Jetleg]

your goal is to try and continue the converation OUT of facebook.

 

[Glassguy]

I've picked up several great lays from fb from chicks that added me and some I've added.

If they added me, I'll send them a message right after I accept their friend request and ask "do I know you?". Let them initiate after their response. Just enough action from me to fuel the fire.

My current fwb added me on fb. I asked the "do I know you" and she said "no, I added you because you're hot". We were fvcking within 2 days. Got a great bj from her this afternoon. We fvck, she leaves. Never been at my place longer than 10 minutes afterwards.

If you add them, wait a few days, find something interesting in their profile or pics (preferably a hobby you both obviously like) and shoot her over a quick message. "Hey I noticed that you like ____.....interesting. How long have you been doing it?". Her response will show you if she's interested. Always turn that first message into a question. Always give her the "gotta run....stay on touch!" and bounce once you have a fairly decent convo building. Then wait a few days to see if she hits you back. If she doesn't you can always strike the convo back up a week or so later.

I disagree with the posters who say don't look at fb for lays. It's a free, avaliable pool of women to check out. Most will feel comfortable responding to you since most will have mutual friends. Tear it up.

Those that say otherwise aren't doing it right or aren't getting laid from it.

 

[mr. kennedy]

How old are you glassguy?

I wonder if fb is good for under 30.

 

[Glassguy]

I'm 38. I rarely date chicks over 30, most are 25-30. Current fwb is 28, solid hb8.

Women are women. They all like to fvck. Age difference would only be a change in dialogue in the messages, nothing more.

 

[Glassguy]

And I promise that unless the chick that adds YOU is actually someone you know on a personal level, she is interested. Never had one add me that I didn't hook up with unless I wasn't interested....which happens often.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Mine is on lock down unless we have a common friend otherwise they can't find me.

You had to accept her friend request.

How do you know her? You are over thinking it, ask her out already and gauge interest. Otherwise she's just an attention seeker.

 

[MrOctober]

be like..
"Do I know you?" Let her feel dumb and vulnerable and proceed to game her.