"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hot but stupid? Would you hit it?

Ice Cold

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I have a problem.

Last 3 girls I been with didn't really do it for me. They were hot and turned me on... but it was purely physical and nothing more.

They like me, they're hot, but the moment they start talking, I get a feeling I'm listening to a retard. It would be better if they didn't talk at all and just looked pretty.

It's like fukkin a model who has IQ of a monkey. Leaves a feeling of disgust for them and for my weakness for their bodies.

And they are "nice" people... but unbeleivably stupid, obscessing over some minor problems in their lives... No goals... no worthwhile thoughts... Just discussion of uniportant events. I can't symphathise, I can't even force myself to.

This girl, Angie. Seemed ok. I laid her, came, then she rolls over and just blabs. Oooh... did you know? This girl at my college... blah blah blah...

I just left and told her I don't wanna see her again.

Anybody can relate?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DeathDealer

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I banged Paris Hilton last weekend, I can relate...
 

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Hot but stupid?

I didn't read your post, but I can say I would hit it. But then again, I am male.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PRMoon

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Okay this is a trick question... right?
 

DjDreamer

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I think you should do some charity work...help those hot chicks move up a notch on the IQ scale...challenge yourself...

When you're fvcking 'em...whisper some Shakespear in their ear...
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
I have a problem.

Last 3 girls I been with didn't really do it for me. They were hot and turned me on... but it was purely physical and nothing more.

They like me, they're hot, but the moment they start talking, I get a feeling I'm listening to a retard. It would be better if they didn't talk at all and just looked pretty.

It's like fukkin a model who has IQ of a monkey. Leaves a feeling of disgust for them and for my weakness for their bodies.

And they are "nice" people... but unbeleivably stupid, obscessing over some minor problems in their lives... No goals... no worthwhile thoughts... Just discussion of uniportant events. I can't symphathise, I can't even force myself to.

This girl, Angie. Seemed ok. I laid her, came, then she rolls over and just blabs. Oooh... did you know? This girl at my college... blah blah blah...

I just left and told her I don't wanna see her again.

Anybody can relate?
I know exactly what you mean.

If it makes you feel so bad inside after hitting it - raise your standards. Modify your qualifiers for women so that you engage them in some meaningful conversation before you bed them. You need to put some intelligence into your approach - get into some talk that they will have to have at least some degree of intelligence and intellect to keep up with.

Also, it seems they just might be shallow and superficial. In that case, I would suggest altering the environment where you are picking up - i.e. try a coffee shop instead of a club (just an example).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most dumb girls don't have opinions on current events, career decisions or basically any type of original thinking; therefore, there's not much you can argue about. Just bring on the booty. If I want a challenging conversation I'll talk to my sister or one of my co-workers.
 

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I dont usually care about what girls think about world events and other things, hell i dont even give a damn what my friends think about world or current events or socio-econimic statistics or white slavery in eastern europe.

Guess what im getting at is im a shallow son of a ***** and to me looks prevail over all.

I mean sure this chick can tell me about some new archeological discovery but if her ass is flat im outta there ya dig.
 

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nothing wrong with a dumb hot girl :) send them all my way
 

Broham

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Originally posted by Julian
I dont usually care about what girls think about world events and other things, hell i dont even give a damn what my friends think about world or current events or socio-econimic statistics or white slavery in eastern europe.

Guess what im getting at is im a shallow son of a ***** and to me looks prevail over all.

I mean sure this chick can tell me about some new archeological discovery but if her ass is flat im outta there ya dig.
True dat man. Leave the intellectual stuff for the work week. On the weekends, bring on the fun! Partying, dancing, and hot sex.
 

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Originally posted by Broham
Most dumb girls don't have opinions on current events, career decisions or basically any type of original thinking; therefore, there's not much you can argue about. Just bring on the booty. If I want a challenging conversation I'll talk to my sister or one of my co-workers.
Excellent point!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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