"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hot Beach 100 Years Ago

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol, you do know that your making fun of your great grandparents and their culture. The conservative clothing they wore reflected the attitude of the people of that day, respecting others, family and themselves.

Wheres the respect with kids these days, I wonder how would you feel if your great grand kids were making fun of you and your culture 100 years from now.
 
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lol, you do know that your making fun of your great grandparents and their culture. The conservative clothing they wore reflected the attitude of the people of that day, respecting others, family and themselves.

Wheres the respect with kids these days, I wonder how would you feel if your great grand kids were making fun of you and your culture 100 years from now.
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"Look! In the year 2010, people in beaches wore CLOTHES!"
 
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EA Gold said:
lol, you do know that your making fun of your great grandparents and their culture. The conservative clothing they wore reflected the attitude of the people of that day, respecting others, family and themselves.

Wheres the respect with kids these days, I wonder how would you feel if your great grand kids were making fun of you and your culture 100 years from now.
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My great-grandparents were subject to signs in government and other public buildings that read "No Dogs or Indians Allowed". While their parents were shot down like animals with hotchkiss guns at Wounded Knee.

I don't share your americana. I wish I could entertain the concept of the "good old days", aka "the days when we had the darkies in their place" (pressed firmly beneath boot heels).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Looks way to hot to wear all that.

love #14
girls laying down, and you can all the guys ware "pitching a tent"

I dont' get #26.
Black people can't swim?
 
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Serialized3 said:
My great-grandparents were subject to signs in government and other public buildings that read "No Dogs or Indians Allowed". While their parents were shot down like animals with hotchkiss guns at Wounded Knee.

I don't share your americana. I wish I could entertain the concept of the "good old days", aka "the days when we had the darkies in their place" (pressed firmly beneath boot heels).
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Well I agree that America back in the day had issues, for example my great grand parents were in a war of independence from America. That's right, the Imperial United States of America was trying to control my country of origin in which caused over 1 Million Civilians killed and thousands wounded.

It's not a war that is often mentioned but it was the Philippine-American War.

Now I have to say that the general population of Americans were generally good upstanding people, but incidents like this blame has to go on the government and its leaders.
 
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Wow, I can't believe all those guys with the outline of their "junk" so clearly visible. Yuck, the early speedo.

I also wonder why some of the women are all done up in Victorian-era dresses, while others are in swimsuits.
 
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Serialized3 said:
My great-grandparents were subject to signs in government and other public buildings that read "No Dogs or Indians Allowed". While their parents were shot down like animals with hotchkiss guns at Wounded Knee.

I don't share your americana. I wish I could entertain the concept of the "good old days", aka "the days when we had the darkies in their place" (pressed firmly beneath boot heels).
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I don't share "americana" and truly wish that people would open their eyes to the fact there were no "Good old days."
- Native Americans were killed off on genocidal levels.
- American Imperialism
- America only has 5% of the worlds population, but 25% of the worlds prison population
- No universal health care
- The idea that all taxes are bad
- Too many people talking about government at stupid levels (AKA Yahoo Answers)
- and the list goes on and on...

I want to get out of the US eventually.

- comic_relief
 
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when girls who hung out at the beach weren't party sluts
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No, those were the party sluts of the day. If you notice, some of them were flashing ankle! That was like cleavage back then.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Hey kids, put on your Sunday best, we're going to the beach!"

I understand being conservative and not wanting to show off too much skin, but wearing a nice dress in the ocean is just stupid.

I wouldn't be surprised if skinny dipping was very common for the locals. Go the beach off peak time and take off that Victorian dress so you don't ruin it.
 
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