Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
My 2 month relationship ended last night, i feel like absolute **** hungover and depressed. Any advice on getting over this ****? any uplifting material. Ive never felt so ****ty, what a waste of a new years
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Horrible night
- Thread starter Hockey Playa
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just move on.
It was a 2 months, not 2 years.
You prolly weren't gonna end up marrying her anyways.
You're single now..So what?? Get another girlfriend. Can probably be done in a week.
As for being hungover. The best way to get rid of a hangover is to get drunk again. So get some more beers, sit in front of the TV, and have a good day.
It was a 2 months, not 2 years.
You prolly weren't gonna end up marrying her anyways.
You're single now..So what?? Get another girlfriend. Can probably be done in a week.
As for being hungover. The best way to get rid of a hangover is to get drunk again. So get some more beers, sit in front of the TV, and have a good day.
Dude. You're feeling sh!ty because you feel sorry for yourself. Deal with your own self-pity by yourself. Don't ask anyone here on the forums to suck your own d!ck to make you feel better.
Live your life; and yes, move on. It's just ONE girl. Clearly if something happened in that short of a period, it would not have lasted. You're looking at things negatively. Clearly, you and this girl, aren't for each other if it fell apart after two months, so you just saved yourself much more pain and agony if your wish came true (her calling you back and getting back together). All you're doing is extending the fuse to the barrel of gunpowder. It will still fvcking blow up in your face.
And the longer you wait, as you slowly watch it approach doomsday, you'll be in more pain as it tears you apart slowly. So stop your b!tching, woman. Be happy you saved yourself some Kleenex, and go out and enjoy your life.
Happy New Years
Love,
Fitch <3
P.S. You don't like the answer you're hearing? Don't post your problems in a public forum.
