Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
My 2 month relationship ended last night, i feel like absolute **** hungover and depressed. Any advice on getting over this ****? any uplifting material. Ive never felt so ****ty, what a waste of a new years
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Horrible night
- Thread starter Hockey Playa
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Just move on.
It was a 2 months, not 2 years.
You prolly weren't gonna end up marrying her anyways.
You're single now..So what?? Get another girlfriend. Can probably be done in a week.
As for being hungover. The best way to get rid of a hangover is to get drunk again. So get some more beers, sit in front of the TV, and have a good day.
It was a 2 months, not 2 years.
You prolly weren't gonna end up marrying her anyways.
You're single now..So what?? Get another girlfriend. Can probably be done in a week.
As for being hungover. The best way to get rid of a hangover is to get drunk again. So get some more beers, sit in front of the TV, and have a good day.
Dude. You're feeling sh!ty because you feel sorry for yourself. Deal with your own self-pity by yourself. Don't ask anyone here on the forums to suck your own d!ck to make you feel better.
Live your life; and yes, move on. It's just ONE girl. Clearly if something happened in that short of a period, it would not have lasted. You're looking at things negatively. Clearly, you and this girl, aren't for each other if it fell apart after two months, so you just saved yourself much more pain and agony if your wish came true (her calling you back and getting back together). All you're doing is extending the fuse to the barrel of gunpowder. It will still fvcking blow up in your face.
And the longer you wait, as you slowly watch it approach doomsday, you'll be in more pain as it tears you apart slowly. So stop your b!tching, woman. Be happy you saved yourself some Kleenex, and go out and enjoy your life.
Happy New Years
Love,
Fitch <3
P.S. You don't like the answer you're hearing? Don't post your problems in a public forum.
