Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
My 2 month relationship ended last night, i feel like absolute **** hungover and depressed. Any advice on getting over this ****? any uplifting material. Ive never felt so ****ty, what a waste of a new years
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Horrible night
- Thread starter Hockey Playa
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Just move on.
It was a 2 months, not 2 years.
You prolly weren't gonna end up marrying her anyways.
You're single now..So what?? Get another girlfriend. Can probably be done in a week.
As for being hungover. The best way to get rid of a hangover is to get drunk again. So get some more beers, sit in front of the TV, and have a good day.
It was a 2 months, not 2 years.
You prolly weren't gonna end up marrying her anyways.
You're single now..So what?? Get another girlfriend. Can probably be done in a week.
As for being hungover. The best way to get rid of a hangover is to get drunk again. So get some more beers, sit in front of the TV, and have a good day.
Dude. You're feeling sh!ty because you feel sorry for yourself. Deal with your own self-pity by yourself. Don't ask anyone here on the forums to suck your own d!ck to make you feel better.
Live your life; and yes, move on. It's just ONE girl. Clearly if something happened in that short of a period, it would not have lasted. You're looking at things negatively. Clearly, you and this girl, aren't for each other if it fell apart after two months, so you just saved yourself much more pain and agony if your wish came true (her calling you back and getting back together). All you're doing is extending the fuse to the barrel of gunpowder. It will still fvcking blow up in your face.
And the longer you wait, as you slowly watch it approach doomsday, you'll be in more pain as it tears you apart slowly. So stop your b!tching, woman. Be happy you saved yourself some Kleenex, and go out and enjoy your life.
Happy New Years
Love,
Fitch <3
P.S. You don't like the answer you're hearing? Don't post your problems in a public forum.
