"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Horny" then silence.

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dude99 said:
You 2 arent dating. Sounds like she likes to text you stuff to get you going with zero follow through. If you two are in highschool i bet she is showing her friends the texts between you two and they are laughing at you. Sorry but i think she has discovered her "sexuality," can be used to waste guys time while keeping herself (and her friends) entertained.

Withdraw all attention. Force her to reach out to you. If she doesn't then you know she was just wasting your time and luckily you only wasted 2 dates. If she cares, she will reach out. Then when she does, make her put her money where her mouth is. If she yanks you around again, you hard next.
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Not i highschool and as said prior i used the term dating cos we went on dates not because of a relationship english isnt my first language.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She made contact, says was partying after finishing 1st yr of law school and dint check her phone.
 
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Teasing your c0ck. My response would have been “Sounds like fun. don’t hurt your hand”
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Now she is apologizing sayingbshevdidnt mean to be impolite and got caught up in the post school partying.
 
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ace88 said:
She lives with family, i tr


You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
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No, he is totally incorrect, if you use his recommended opening line to a girl you are dating but not yet kissed she will more than likely run a mile.
 
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ace88 said:
She made contact, says was partying after finishing 1st yr of law school and dint check her phone.
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This helps a lot. I was trying to figure out the ages of you and her to put this in context.

Law students are horny (and wild) as F. Honestly, you should have had a heated makeout session by now at a very minimum. She probably hooked up with some other guy during her partying session.

More sexting is NOT going to work at this point. It is quite possible that you are in friendzone. Invite her out for a drink. Then, assuming she doesn't run to her car afterwards, try to kiss her. If you get no kiss, or just the cheek, it's game over. If you get a long kiss or makeout, then there is still a chance.
 
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ace88 said:
12am messaging a girl im dating she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.

Whats the deal according to you guys??


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
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Validation. She wanted to see if you would, but she didn't want to.
 
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