"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Horny Goat Weed - that's a silly name

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I guess I'm just interested in ways to increase one's energy and sex drive.

Anyway, does anyone have experience with the above mentioned HGW and does it have any positive effects?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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improving physical fitness can do more than any supplement.
 
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I agree with Diablo. I tried it too and got nothing from it.

Exercise and healthy living is the surest way to increase sex drive.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's ALL placebo, dude.
I tried it a couple years ago and on the bus on the way to work I sprang an impromptu bon*r and I was amazed...however, when it came time to *really* need it, I didn't notice squat.

It's all BS, save the money.

Like the guys before me have said, physical fitness is the key.

I've been lifting seriously (as opposed to unserious before ha) since January and I feel like a complete sexual beast lately. I feel great physically, almost the same mentally; I look at myself in the mirror and even I get turned on! :confused: {awright, that's a joke}
 
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Silly name for a silly product! As others say the gym and nailing your diet correctly is the best way to boost your sex-drive. You may have to make more of your time free in the day to relieve yourself but when isn't it a pleasure? It's quite incredible, really. :)

Pete
 
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OK, OK, we know that lifting weights will help your sex drive. But, honestly, that's a lot of work.

Is there ANY supplement out there that's natural that helps? Ginseng? Yohimbe? Magnesium? Tiger-testicles? ANYTHING?

Again, not averse to working out... but it might HELP my inclanation to work outi if my sex-drive was already getting a boost. I know that a month or so ago when I started seeing this girl and REALLY starting to like her my sex drive/energy/libido went through the roof and going to the gym was easy and fun.

When you're not getting any (or EXPECTING to get any) it can be tough.
 
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I personally found horny goat weed worked. Its just that it is a cumulative effect, so you need to take it consistantly for over a month I found. And I upped my dose.
 
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wait... you want a raging sex drive when you're not expecting to get any? whew, talk about masochism.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Throttle said:
wait... you want a raging sex drive when you're not expecting to get any? whew, talk about masochism.
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LOL, that's not what I meant. Sorry. When you're actually "dating" someone you can expect a little more nookie than if you're simply on the prowl. Studies have proven that men in new relationships see spiking levels of testosterone.

I know I felt it, BIG TIME.
 
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