"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Horny Goat Weed - that's a silly name
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
diablo
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I tried it a couple years ago and on the bus on the way to work I sprang an impromptu bon*r and I was amazed...however, when it came time to *really* need it, I didn't notice squat.
It's all BS, save the money.
Like the guys before me have said, physical fitness is the key.
I've been lifting seriously (as opposed to unserious before ha) since January and I feel like a complete sexual beast lately. I feel great physically, almost the same mentally; I look at myself in the mirror and even I get turned on!
{awright, that's a joke}musclyjerk
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Is there ANY supplement out there that's natural that helps? Ginseng? Yohimbe? Magnesium? Tiger-testicles? ANYTHING?
Again, not averse to working out... but it might HELP my inclanation to work outi if my sex-drive was already getting a boost. I know that a month or so ago when I started seeing this girl and REALLY starting to like her my sex drive/energy/libido went through the roof and going to the gym was easy and fun.
When you're not getting any (or EXPECTING to get any) it can be tough.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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LOL, that's not what I meant. Sorry. When you're actually "dating" someone you can expect a little more nookie than if you're simply on the prowl. Studies have proven that men in new relationships see spiking levels of testosterone.Throttle said:
I know I felt it, BIG TIME.