"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horny biddies... COLLEGE

Spade

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Im gonna be straight up.

Guys

- Im 19.
- Im a frosh
- Im livin in a college dorm filled with sexy blonde biddies
- Im ripped, im gonna be a personal trainer in the summer

BUT IM NOT BANGING ANY CHICKS!!

First year of college is supposed to be a time for partyin and bangin fresh puxxy, and i feel its slipping away. Im not calibrated and i dont know how to bring a girl to my room from other floors. I cant even get simple hook ups and its not that im AFC im cool and collected, i just cant seduce godammit!

Im new to western game too and my sexual experiences are limited to hookups, but still I dent get how this **** works and how other guys r getting some.

I DONT WANT TO MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY... WHAT THE FOCK DO I DO!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plinco

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dude, calm down and relax. It is no big deal. The very fact that you make a big deal out of it makes it so that women think you are putting them on a pedestal, even though you might not think that is what you are doing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sodbuster

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You can rarely ask a woman over for sex, they don't want the slut label. You invite them into your room....to see your -----[whatever unique you have in the room] and lead it towards sex. I've asked a woman for her help figuring out where to hang a picture,to look at the table I've refinished[she asked me what I was up to all weekend] etc. THEN it heads toward sex.
 

Atom Smasher

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OP, have you read the DJ bible and the Book of Pook?
 
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