The purpose of making this thread was to kind of introduce myself, since I have posted on some of the threads, and since this a male forum, I just wanted to say, yes, I'm a girl, but I don't offend easy, if you want to reply to my posts, or call me a beyatch like Mr. Wolf, although I'm feeling the love from you, Mr. Wolf. :kick:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hope you guys don't mind
- Thread starter LivA
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Well if you look at his profile pic you'll see he is a little imp.LivA said:
(Mr. Wolf, imps are cute.)
iqqi
Master Don Juan
You guys just don't get each other's humour yet.