"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hope you guys don't mind

LivA

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The purpose of making this thread was to kind of introduce myself, since I have posted on some of the threads, and since this a male forum, I just wanted to say, yes, I'm a girl, but I don't offend easy, if you want to reply to my posts, or call me a beyatch like Mr. Wolf, although I'm feeling the love from you, Mr. Wolf. :kick:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LivA said:
if you want to reply to my posts, or call me a beyatch like Mr. Wolf, although I'm feeling the love from you, Mr. Wolf. :kick:
Well if you look at his profile pic you'll see he is a little imp. :)

(Mr. Wolf, imps are cute.)
 

LivA

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Well, I don't want to start any drama, FOR SURE. Mr. Wolf and I have just established early that we don't get along. No big deal.
 
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