The purpose of making this thread was to kind of introduce myself, since I have posted on some of the threads, and since this a male forum, I just wanted to say, yes, I'm a girl, but I don't offend easy, if you want to reply to my posts, or call me a beyatch like Mr. Wolf, although I'm feeling the love from you, Mr. Wolf. :kick:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hope you guys don't mind
- Thread starter LivA
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Well if you look at his profile pic you'll see he is a little imp.LivA said:
(Mr. Wolf, imps are cute.)
iqqi
Master Don Juan
You guys just don't get each other's humour yet.