Ive been wondering am i still a nice guy. AFC and nice guys seem to be different where as afc's are clueless with women and nice guys just worship them. I still feel im a kind guy, i neg girls once in a while but the negs seem to have no effect at all. How mean do i have to get, its not like im some nice guy that gets pushed around, im confident i have my own mind. But im still in a sense more nice than mean, i don't want to have to be some *******. Is this a bad thing. Because lately negs don't seem to be working on the girls i talk to.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hope im no nice guy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
It's not about what you say, it's how you project yourself as a person through your body language and voice tone, which reflects the amount of confidence you have.
haha i had the same problem bud 
, a great tip i got from an experienced PUA he said "it's not about how mean you can be, its about how nice you are not going to be" so he\\ no don't be mean man, its a false assumption i made myself , when i was a nice guy. i just stopped being so nice, stopped giving so many compliments, ego boosts... etc etc.
and its also like (War Against Betaism) said
It's not about what you say, it's how you project yourself as a person through your body language and voice tone, which reflects the amount of confidence you have.
and trust me, once you start getting more IOI's (indicators of interest)
your confidence will just grow and grow__________________
, a great tip i got from an experienced PUA he said "it's not about how mean you can be, its about how nice you are not going to be" so he\\ no don't be mean man, its a false assumption i made myself , when i was a nice guy. i just stopped being so nice, stopped giving so many compliments, ego boosts... etc etc. and its also like (War Against Betaism) said
It's not about what you say, it's how you project yourself as a person through your body language and voice tone, which reflects the amount of confidence you have.
and trust me, once you start getting more IOI's (indicators of interest)
your confidence will just grow and grow
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