"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I really wasnt in the best of moods saturday (think a girl I liked is just stringing me along) so me and some friends went out to eat at hooters. (I love the scenery.)

When we got there our waitress was really cute (about 19) and was kinda bouncing to some random 80's song. I think i made fun of her or something and ordered my food. She came back later and we talked for 5 minutes or so about her job and I made fun or her again for the whole bouncing thing. She pretended to get mad and walked off. Later on she came back for a sec to talk and left. Around the time for us to leave she was standing by the door and my friend convinced me to get her number. I said, "Hey you seem like a lot of fun we should hang out some time or something." She said she had a boyfriend and i was like that sucks and told her i see her again then i left.

Did I do anything wrong or did i just get unlucky? This was my first real approach so i dont think i did to bad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Well I gotta say it takes some balls to ask a girl that works at hooters for her number, since she probably gets asked for it all the time. I say you did fairly well. If you wanted to push it you could've said something like...

"Well thats nice, but Im not asking for his number."

Oh, so how long have you had this problem."

Mad props though man, keep it up!!!!
 

OneByOne

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I've gotta give u props man, that must've took some balls well done, i think u just got unlucky, but i've gotto try wat JBizzle sed, hehe

"Oh, so how long have you had this problem."
 

InsidiousNstinct

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thanks but I didnt come up wit dat one... someone else did but I dont remember who:rolleyes:
 
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