"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hoooking Up

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OK... well the past year has been amazing. I have broken out of my shell... made a ton of new friends, and drasticlly improved my social life. Last year on weekends I would have a choice of 1) Nothing 2) Halo 3) Hangout / movies with guy friends. Noooooow however I have so many options and girl opportunites. Thissummer has truly bee namazing... A few weeks ago I "picked up" my first girl =] It was at this town fair thing and I approached a group of girls (and i was in a really energetic mood)... and itwas fun. Anywayss... up till the other day.. I never really kissed a girl or anythin. Wellll.... I'm at my friend's house...at a little party, and he tells me that this one girl is interested in me, and to make a move. Welll I was actually goin for get friend, but hey this girl (Sam) is actually hotter. Sooo I Kino with her a loooot.... and punched some ass who tried to "****block" lol. (in a playful way on his arm... but hard =] ) Soooo im walking with my arm around her.....into the back room =] Sooo i guess we both kinda know why lol... now for the real test.... mmaking the move and using all my knowledge and skills ive learned from this site. Welll..... We both sat on the couch... and were close... my arm around her. With my other hand I grabber hers while talking .. and did the "kiss test" where u gently squeeze and she aqueezes bacl (even tho i knew she would hok up wit me). Anyways, she then puts her leg over mine =0 lol... so at this point im like extreeemmmeeeely nervous, and get closer... as we talk out faces are touchin yad yada... and I kinda go in for it.. but nothing happens. Anywaysss... she ends up goin "you wanna hook up ?" lmao.. .and we do haha. Well now that fears conquered... lol... but here's my question. - When I have a girl all "kino"ed up and ready for the kiss... and we're alone... without using a cheesy line, how would i initate it ? I'm hoping to get this from a teenager's POV cuz in 16... and from wat i hear (and see) teenage girls are VERY diff from mature women. And sorry if Ive been ranting on... its jus tthat I'm reeeeallly happy =]
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lean in, close eyes, kiss.....?.......sound to complicated for you?
 

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Yehh well in that case we had out cheeks touching... but werent facing each other.... :moon: But thanks tho =]
 

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If your cheeks a touching you know your in, or else she would have pushed you away. From this point I like to start at the neck then slowly make my way up to her cheek. The slower you make it the more intimate the situation gets, she knows it, you know it. Then slowly but surely you ease over to the lips and bingo. Easy.
 

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gravstar said:
If your cheeks a touching you know your in, or else she would have pushed you away. From this point I like to start at the neck then slowly make my way up to her cheek. The slower you make it the more intimate the situation gets, she knows it, you know it. Then slowly but surely you ease over to the lips and bingo. Easy.
Yeh we both know it "was on" lol.... but we spent like 5 min talking about random **** while sitting like that haha lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nice work, my man! Way to not just sit on here all day hoping to get better without practice. You did great, and if you want to know what to do next time, just go for it. If you are that close/holding each other/etc, just look in her eyes and slowly get closer until you start going at it.
 

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do whats natural lol. simple. you WILL know when shes ready, and thats when you just slowly lean in, close eyes, BAM.
 

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thx a lot... ill try it next time lol (hopefully soon ;] )
 
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