"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hoooking Up

muzicfreak2k3

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OK... well the past year has been amazing. I have broken out of my shell... made a ton of new friends, and drasticlly improved my social life. Last year on weekends I would have a choice of 1) Nothing 2) Halo 3) Hangout / movies with guy friends. Noooooow however I have so many options and girl opportunites. Thissummer has truly bee namazing... A few weeks ago I "picked up" my first girl =] It was at this town fair thing and I approached a group of girls (and i was in a really energetic mood)... and itwas fun. Anywayss... up till the other day.. I never really kissed a girl or anythin. Wellll.... I'm at my friend's house...at a little party, and he tells me that this one girl is interested in me, and to make a move. Welll I was actually goin for get friend, but hey this girl (Sam) is actually hotter. Sooo I Kino with her a loooot.... and punched some ass who tried to "****block" lol. (in a playful way on his arm... but hard =] ) Soooo im walking with my arm around her.....into the back room =] Sooo i guess we both kinda know why lol... now for the real test.... mmaking the move and using all my knowledge and skills ive learned from this site. Welll..... We both sat on the couch... and were close... my arm around her. With my other hand I grabber hers while talking .. and did the "kiss test" where u gently squeeze and she aqueezes bacl (even tho i knew she would hok up wit me). Anyways, she then puts her leg over mine =0 lol... so at this point im like extreeemmmeeeely nervous, and get closer... as we talk out faces are touchin yad yada... and I kinda go in for it.. but nothing happens. Anywaysss... she ends up goin "you wanna hook up ?" lmao.. .and we do haha. Well now that fears conquered... lol... but here's my question. - When I have a girl all "kino"ed up and ready for the kiss... and we're alone... without using a cheesy line, how would i initate it ? I'm hoping to get this from a teenager's POV cuz in 16... and from wat i hear (and see) teenage girls are VERY diff from mature women. And sorry if Ive been ranting on... its jus tthat I'm reeeeallly happy =]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lean in, close eyes, kiss.....?.......sound to complicated for you?
 

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Yehh well in that case we had out cheeks touching... but werent facing each other.... :moon: But thanks tho =]
 

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If your cheeks a touching you know your in, or else she would have pushed you away. From this point I like to start at the neck then slowly make my way up to her cheek. The slower you make it the more intimate the situation gets, she knows it, you know it. Then slowly but surely you ease over to the lips and bingo. Easy.
 

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gravstar said:
If your cheeks a touching you know your in, or else she would have pushed you away. From this point I like to start at the neck then slowly make my way up to her cheek. The slower you make it the more intimate the situation gets, she knows it, you know it. Then slowly but surely you ease over to the lips and bingo. Easy.
Yeh we both know it "was on" lol.... but we spent like 5 min talking about random **** while sitting like that haha lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nice work, my man! Way to not just sit on here all day hoping to get better without practice. You did great, and if you want to know what to do next time, just go for it. If you are that close/holding each other/etc, just look in her eyes and slowly get closer until you start going at it.
 

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do whats natural lol. simple. you WILL know when shes ready, and thats when you just slowly lean in, close eyes, BAM.
 

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thx a lot... ill try it next time lol (hopefully soon ;] )
 
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