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Why would someone uploading pics on a porn site care about what other women would think of those pics unless they were lesbians? Why would you think the word hor is worst than a name that personifies evil?
I feel like I'm being trolled right now... Lots of women identify with satanism and witchcraft, the subreddit Witches vs. Patriarchy is a great example, go take a look if you don't believe me
 

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I feel like I'm being trolled right now... Lots of women identify with satanism and witchcraft, the subreddit Witches vs. Patriarchy is a great example, go take a look if you don't believe me
No wonder the world is going to hell. I am volcel if that is the case as I would touch such women with a 10 foot pole. Yikes!
 

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No wonder the world is going to hell. I am volcel if that is the case as I would touch such women with a 10 foot pole. Yikes!
Bro I'm not gonna lie to you, Demons don't exist in the way you are saying, you don't need to pay anyone to get rid of Demons, have you ever considered talking to a professional about this belief?

Many people use Demons as a term to describe the challenges they face with mental illness, it's not a Demon they are facing but the effects of the illness and they attribute those affects to a Demon.

Im not trying to gas light you or anything, like really this isn't normal bro, an exorcism over a webcam is probably the most ridiculous paranormal thing I've ever heard, this person took advantage of you, like I'm wondering if your gas lighting me or if your serious
 

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Ya know there is a more positive avenue for this.
I usually find that the guys who say this stuff are insecure and fear being cheated on.
They cant swallow the truth of the SMP. Morality has nothing to do with it
The problem is i came from a more traditional background, I expected to find a wife by 18 but nobody my age was ever serious about marriage.

My parents always ask when I'm going to find a wife, my sisters married at 18 as well to add insult to injury. Most girls I dated didn't want to get married till they are at least 30.

Seeing "modern" women waste their prime years on the cawk carousel is idiotic.
 

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You shouldn't depend on anyone.
If you have a partner or a roommate there are split responsibilities and split expenses, you're telling me in that situation you can't count on them? I just refuse to be filled with this negative female propaganda like all are exactly the same.
 

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Bro I'm not gonna lie to you, Demons don't exist in the way you are saying, you don't need to pay anyone to get rid of Demons, have you ever considered talking to a professional about this belief?

Many people use Demons as a term to describe the challenges they face with mental illness, it's not a Demon they are facing but the effects of the illness and they attribute those affects to a Demon.

Im not trying to gas light you or anything, like really this isn't normal bro, an exorcism over a webcam is probably the most ridiculous paranormal thing I've ever heard, this person took advantage of you, like I'm wondering if your gas lighting me or if your serious
I did not use the services of that exorcist, I'm just aware of it. I can't say that he would even suggest that would have worked to have produced an instant result back in December, 2014. That is because his ministry does differentiate between mental illness and a demonic possession and based on how he had described mental illness, there is a high probability that he would have referred me to a doctor rather than carry on with an exocism.

Also, looking at how he does his exorcisms, they don't work with everyone. First of all, I'm not that suggestable and typically don't respond well to any quasi-hypnotic thing even if I want to.

The point I'm saying is just because I'm aware of something doesn't mean I've tried it myself or believe it would work for me. It's more of a rhetorical saying that I got hit too badly after seeing a prostitute in December, 2014, that nothing is off limits if I get another reaction like that again. There is also no guarantee on the negative, that I'll get a bad hit like that if I were to visit a prostitute again, especially if I'm developing a comfort level with her by subscribing to her onlyfans page.
 

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The problem is...

Do females actually have anything to offer more than just momentary fun?
I can't think of anything. Unless she's a unicorn, but that horse has been beaten to death plenty of times...
 

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If you have a partner or a roommate there are split responsibilities and split expenses, you're telling me in that situation you can't count on them? I just refuse to be filled with this negative female propaganda like all are exactly the same.
It's not negative just a fact. If a person is reliable, then great.
 

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The problem is i came from a more traditional background, I expected to find a wife by 18 but nobody my age was ever serious about marriage.

My parents always ask when I'm going to find a wife, my sisters married at 18 as well to add insult to injury. Most girls I dated didn't want to get married till they are at least 30.

Seeing "modern" women waste their prime years on the cawk carousel is idiotic.
I think I know what you mean by that. For me, the bad news was that some women did want to get married...

Your RP already right ?

Look into the work of Richard Dawkins
Dawkins argued that natural selection takes place at the genetic rather than the species or individual level..

Also if not already read, The Red Queen by Matt Ridley.

The two sets of information support each other, with a conclusion that the sexual market place is operating at a deep level that is built at the core physical level of humans (and other creatures as well). Women are indeed controlled completely by this at an instinct level that operates outside of their controllable thoughts. Life itself wants to continue and it has evolved into humans that are very successful in the competition for survival and growth. The crappy way that women behave is actually key in why humans are top of the food chain. By understanding this information we can start to catch on to the point that the issue is not who is the woman but what is the woman. When that becomes clear the anger and irritation of and about them will stop and also how to deal with them becomes clear. As well men are part of it also and can be understood. Then it is a process of sorting them to find the ones .. that you can and want to deal with.

The genes in the women are confused and can not decide on the best choice or the best choice is not available. So her genes continue to look for the best choice. She is not forced to make a choice for survival and can continue to chase for a better choice and has information that so many choices are available. Her genes are stuck on the sort for the best, and the data set to sort is just too big. This is happening at the evolutionary level, not in the active thought. Men providing choices to them via the carousel have figured out or genetically are strong in some way so as to activate her evaluation subroutine. This includes sex to ensure and verify strength or in some cases to immediately take seed. But her genes know from her other senses that more choices are available and they might not have the best one so they keep looking. In some cases will take seed again the same day if another choice is presented that is strong. This is occurring at the genetic level in the fight for the survival of the species. The genes however get the information from the senses, sight, smell, sound, touch. The mind is just along for the ride.

This maps into all of it.
for example.

Orbiters = another set of genes that want to compete with yours.
Being on a purpose = your genes are going to win, and any that bond with you will also create a winner.
Money and or status = your genes have the ability for surviving and will do so.
Greedy, Dark Triad = your genes have the will to do whatever it takes to win. <- at the evolutionary level this is the top of the heap.
Kind and helpful = you have genes that will create a follower or a worker and will give away power.

you get the idea, the list can go on and on.
 

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I think I know what you mean by that. For me, the bad news was that some women did want to get married...

Your RP already right ?

Look into the work of Richard Dawkins
Dawkins argued that natural selection takes place at the genetic rather than the species or individual level..

Also if not already read, The Red Queen by Matt Ridley.

The two sets of information support each other, with a conclusion that the sexual market place is operating at a deep level that is built at the core physical level of humans (and other creatures as well). Women are indeed controlled completely by this at an instinct level that operates outside of their controllable thoughts. Life itself wants to continue and it has evolved into humans that are very successful in the competition for survival and growth. The crappy way that women behave is actually key in why humans are top of the food chain. By understanding this information we can start to catch on to the point that the issue is not who is the woman but what is the woman. When that becomes clear the anger and irritation of and about them will stop and also how to deal with them becomes clear. As well men are part of it also and can be understood. Then it is a process of sorting them to find the ones .. that you can and want to deal with.

The genes in the women are confused and can not decide on the best choice or the best choice is not available. So her genes continue to look for the best choice. She is not forced to make a choice for survival and can continue to chase for a better choice and has information that so many choices are available. Her genes are stuck on the sort for the best, and the data set to sort is just too big. This is happening at the evolutionary level, not in the active thought. Men providing choices to them via the carousel have figured out or genetically are strong in some way so as to activate her evaluation subroutine. This includes sex to ensure and verify strength or in some cases to immediately take seed. But her genes know from her other senses that more choices are available and they might not have the best one so they keep looking. In some cases will take seed again the same day if another choice is presented that is strong. This is occurring at the genetic level in the fight for the survival of the species. The genes however get the information from the senses, sight, smell, sound, touch. The mind is just along for the ride.

This maps into all of it.
for example.

Orbiters = another set of genes that want to compete with yours.
Being on a purpose = your genes are going to win, and any that bond with you will also create a winner.
Money and or status = your genes have the ability for surviving and will do so.
Greedy, Dark Triad = your genes have the will to do whatever it takes to win. <- at the evolutionary level this is the top of the heap.
Kind and helpful = you have genes that will create a follower or a worker and will give away power.

you get the idea, the list can go on and on.
What's the point of pretending you know what goes on in someone else's subconscious brain? This is extreme conjecture at best, and overanalyzing in the most extreme way.

And all that "dark triad" nonsense would get someone killed or excommunicated in a tribal society. Because there's no police for them to fall back on when people catch on to their sh1t.
 

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I feel like I'm being trolled right now... Lots of women identify with satanism and witchcraft, the subreddit Witches vs. Patriarchy is a great example, go take a look if you don't believe me
Facts. One of my sisters former friends who looks like your average well off SEC school sorority girl is knee deep into this stuff.
 

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No wonder the world is going to hell. I am volcel if that is the case as I would touch such women with a 10 foot pole. Yikes!

Satanism is exploding in the US right now...im sure other places as well.
 

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Bro I'm not gonna lie to you, Demons don't exist in the way you are saying, you don't need to pay anyone to get rid of Demons, have you ever considered talking to a professional about this belief?

Many people use Demons as a term to describe the challenges they face with mental illness, it's not a Demon they are facing but the effects of the illness and they attribute those affects to a Demon.

Im not trying to gas light you or anything, like really this isn't normal bro, an exorcism over a webcam is probably the most ridiculous paranormal thing I've ever heard, this person took advantage of you, like I'm wondering if your gas lighting me or if your serious

This strictly your opinion.
 

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What's the point of pretending you know what goes on in someone else's subconscious brain? This is extreme conjecture at best, and overanalyzing in the most extreme way.

And all that "dark triad" nonsense would get someone killed or excommunicated in a tribal society. Because there's no police for them to fall back on when people catch on to their sh1t.
have you ever had a chance to look into the Dawkins stuff?

You're right, ppl do get killed or pushed out sometimes for that triad sh1t. but it still works. sometimes revolution is a whole country and sometimes it is just one neighborhood.

the evolution stuff is fascinating and fits perfectly with what we all see and tell all the time. the science that backs up what we tell each other. that brings it forward from just a rant to how it is. for anyone that is highly susceptible to oneitis it can help to know that science backs up rp ideas.
 

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Its far deeper then we like to think. There are women out here that will be loyal SO as long as you are doing the work. Guys cannot get comfy and lazy.
And then even still your girl could still get "bored" which is the arch nemesis of the female. It will kill her.
The rules are the rules of the market and we have to alighn ourselves at some level with those.
A cant expect a women enter into a vow for life and live amongst 1000s of other women around who break those vows and divorce or cheat.
Not all but most will follow and push the boundries that every other girl will.

Women are destructive and this is how they would out betas. They try to destroy you at one point or another. Mentally or physically to find out what you got.
No consequences= female chaos.

Theres a saying and its true. "She doesnt know you until she leaves you"
yes, you're telling exactly the same thing that Ridley and Dawkins tell. Just in a different dialect. It's not theory, it's science.
 

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The problem is...

Do females actually have anything to offer more than just momentary fun?
No they don't.....except their ability to raise a young child and keep a home tidy. These creatures were designed to be mothers and domestic assistants. You can also add sexual release to that list. That is it. Those 3 things.
 

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But honestly In the US i dont know why any man would want to marry but thats his choice alone.
I feel similarly. To marry in the United States today, I think you need 2 devote religious practitioners and a desire for children. Religious participation is declining among Millennials (1982-1996, the main marrying cohort now). Gen Z (1997-2012) isnt expected to be much different in this regard as they mature.

When I think about the friends I've made since moving to my current city, they are mainly secular people. There have been a bunch of marriages among my friends. No children from any of these Millennial marriage. I have some older Gen X male friends who married similarly aged women in their 40s in the 2010s. No intention of children there. I didn't understand those marriages.

The problem is i came from a more traditional background, I expected to find a wife by 18 but nobody my age was ever serious about marriage.
That seems specific to you. I would think there'd be the ability to pair off among traditional backgrounds.

Seeing "modern" women waste their prime years on the cawk carousel is idiotic.
Most cawk carousel riders are bailed out by some beta male in their 30s/early 40s. Even with the bailout, it's still some mediocre to subpar existence.

No they don't.....except their ability to raise a young child and keep a home tidy. These creatures were designed to be mothers and domestic assistants. You can also add sexual release to that list. That is it. Those 3 things.
Yet most women are more concerned about their meaningless white collar jobs than raising young children and keeping a home tidy. They like sex in certain circumstances but a lot of white collar women appear to prioritize their white collar career over longer term relationships, but they manage to get pumped and dumped enough.
 

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I feel similarly. To marry in the United States today, I think you need 2 devote religious practitioners and a desire for children. Religious participation is declining among Millennials (1982-1996, the main marrying cohort now). Gen Z (1997-2012) isnt expected to be much different in this regard as they mature.

When I think about the friends I've made since moving to my current city, they are mainly secular people. There have been a bunch of marriages among my friends. No children from any of these Millennial marriage. I have some older Gen X male friends who married similarly aged women in their 40s in the 2010s. No intention of children there. I didn't understand those marriages.



That seems specific to you. I would think there'd be the ability to pair off among traditional backgrounds.



Most cawk carousel riders are bailed out by some beta male in their 30s/early 40s. Even with the bailout, it's still some mediocre to subpar existence.



Yet most women are more concerned about their meaningless white collar jobs than raising young children and keeping a home tidy. They like sex in certain circumstances but a lot of white collar women appear to prioritize their white collar career over longer term relationships, but they manage to get pumped and dumped enough.
Even more important than their career.... Is their Instagram profile complete with all sorts of fake photo tricks and filters. Disgusting
 
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The problem is i came from a more traditional background, I expected to find a wife by 18 but nobody my age was ever serious about marriage.
I used to have the same mindset and problem, but come to accept that reality isn't always as we might have envisioned it or wanted it to be. One of those realities is most people would rather follow the crowd, so you end up with a lot of hook ups. Just think about the times we are in now... entitlement, instant gratification, self-absorption, superficial over substance. People aren't interested in putting in the effort anymore. Worse, being too different can get you excluded socially. I used to think I was a special snowflake in being proper, when not banging girls as the opportunity arose just got me ridiculed. A lot of people have a herd mentality and would rather not be the odd one out.

I was watching a few "I am still a virgin" videos on Youtube, and a lot of the guys seemed proper / polite, had high morals, traditional values, were decent looking, likely didn't approach often if ever. The things they were saying reminded of myself back in the day, and I wasn't successful either. None of those things matter much when it comes to dating and what people are attracted to, such as being in high demand by not making it all about them and keeping your options open. Or dealing with tests and accepting the blame for sexual encounters. If you take it all at face value in the proper way (even if it's right), you probably won't get **** and they'll blame you for it anyway! I literally had that happen a few times back in the day. Naturally I was confused as ****, not realizing the rules of the game and being traditional / proper and so on. Doesn't get people excited or turned on.
 
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