"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hooking up with this beautiful lady at the gym

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Greetings all :) I am new here and was referred to this site and forum by one of my friends that told me this forum is full with people that can give you advice and such.

So, I believe this might have been asked by other dudes in this forum, but since I am looking for a personal advice, I went ahead and made this new thread looking for advices from you guys (and girls if possible).

So basically, I saw this woman that was so my type in the gym I go to regularly for the summer. I saw her several times and tried to pick up her hours going to the gym and apparently she goes to gym like around 6 pm. Yesterday I noticed her and that was the first time he was using some dumbbells in the weight training area. So, I went there took a seat for the dumbbells near her, 11 o'clock direction, not too close, nor too far not to be noticed by her. I wasn't staring, checked her out a bit, but didn't have the confidence to actually have an eye contact and smile to her.

As for physical appearance, I am asian, physically fit (with some love handles I am working to get rid of), pretty good looking (my friends and I thinks so :p). BUT, I am TOO SHY, to girls that are my type. I get pretty smooth to girls that I am not really into (whom I think myself as too good for her).

I know my theory (I have done my research and I read men's health regularly) but I don't seem to have the heart and balls to actually pull it off. Any advice would be really appreciated :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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