“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Greetings all :) I am new here and was referred to this site and forum by one of my friends that told me this forum is full with people that can give you advice and such.

So, I believe this might have been asked by other dudes in this forum, but since I am looking for a personal advice, I went ahead and made this new thread looking for advices from you guys (and girls if possible).

So basically, I saw this woman that was so my type in the gym I go to regularly for the summer. I saw her several times and tried to pick up her hours going to the gym and apparently she goes to gym like around 6 pm. Yesterday I noticed her and that was the first time he was using some dumbbells in the weight training area. So, I went there took a seat for the dumbbells near her, 11 o'clock direction, not too close, nor too far not to be noticed by her. I wasn't staring, checked her out a bit, but didn't have the confidence to actually have an eye contact and smile to her.

As for physical appearance, I am asian, physically fit (with some love handles I am working to get rid of), pretty good looking (my friends and I thinks so :p). BUT, I am TOO SHY, to girls that are my type. I get pretty smooth to girls that I am not really into (whom I think myself as too good for her).

I know my theory (I have done my research and I read men's health regularly) but I don't seem to have the heart and balls to actually pull it off. Any advice would be really appreciated :)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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