"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hooking up with shy girl

jaymbrs

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im struggling sealing the deal with this chick. I went from a confused state on whether she liked me or not because of how standoffish she was with me. I talked to her and she basically came out and told me she finds me physically attractive but wouldn’t take me seriously. She continues to be a little distant so I’m also becoming distant. But I’ll get a text randomly from her about hanging out again.

I say she’s shy because I’ve had to make all the moves so far and it wasn’t easy to get her to kiss me back for awhile. Anyway she’s hot and I don’t see a reason for why she’s like she this. I just want to ****.

Would you guys suggest I come out and tell her I’m not looking for anything serious either? I’m thinking she thinks I want a relationship.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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