"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hooking up with shy girl

jaymbrs

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im struggling sealing the deal with this chick. I went from a confused state on whether she liked me or not because of how standoffish she was with me. I talked to her and she basically came out and told me she finds me physically attractive but wouldn’t take me seriously. She continues to be a little distant so I’m also becoming distant. But I’ll get a text randomly from her about hanging out again.

I say she’s shy because I’ve had to make all the moves so far and it wasn’t easy to get her to kiss me back for awhile. Anyway she’s hot and I don’t see a reason for why she’s like she this. I just want to ****.

Would you guys suggest I come out and tell her I’m not looking for anything serious either? I’m thinking she thinks I want a relationship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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