"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hooking up while backpacking

another_nice_guy

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Im just about to go backpacking round South America and wondering if any DJs have advice?

Stuff in my favour: girls far away from home, wanting an adventure and cut loose

Stuff not in my favour: staying in hostels.

Anyone has experience of this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Huffman

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Maverick you've obviously never done it, or else you would tell otherwise.
 

Huffman

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Think of it that way: if, in a normal situation, you'd try to kiss and sex a girl, and she'd accept/refuse with a 50/50 chance, then on holiday it will be 80/20.

I'm just pulling numbers out of my arse, but it's easy. But do still make the move because it doesn't mean girls will proactively rape you ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"Bump!" to the old topic instead of new one.

I'm backpacking in Europe right now. I will be staying at hostels and would like to try the hostel game.

How should I go about it? Book a bed in a dorm to meet other people easier,or get a more expensive private room instead? How to hint women that I would like to get to know them better and we regret things we didn't do, ...

English is not my first language, and so far I have met women only through my social circle, it's a bit of a challenge at first to try new ways. :)
 

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People (girls) travelling are generally a lot more open to sexual experimentation.
Combine that with the knowledge that you probably won't ever see any of these chicks ever again, and the fact that there will be an endless supply of new females at each hostel.
It all leads to a genuine attitude of not giving a ****, which is a massive alpha trait.

So just have a good time and travel with no regrets.!
 
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