"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im just about to go backpacking round South America and wondering if any DJs have advice?

Stuff in my favour: girls far away from home, wanting an adventure and cut loose

Stuff not in my favour: staying in hostels.

Anyone has experience of this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maverick you've obviously never done it, or else you would tell otherwise.
 
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Think of it that way: if, in a normal situation, you'd try to kiss and sex a girl, and she'd accept/refuse with a 50/50 chance, then on holiday it will be 80/20.

I'm just pulling numbers out of my arse, but it's easy. But do still make the move because it doesn't mean girls will proactively rape you ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Bump!" to the old topic instead of new one.

I'm backpacking in Europe right now. I will be staying at hostels and would like to try the hostel game.

How should I go about it? Book a bed in a dorm to meet other people easier,or get a more expensive private room instead? How to hint women that I would like to get to know them better and we regret things we didn't do, ...

English is not my first language, and so far I have met women only through my social circle, it's a bit of a challenge at first to try new ways. :)
 
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People (girls) travelling are generally a lot more open to sexual experimentation.
Combine that with the knowledge that you probably won't ever see any of these chicks ever again, and the fact that there will be an endless supply of new females at each hostel.
It all leads to a genuine attitude of not giving a ****, which is a massive alpha trait.

So just have a good time and travel with no regrets.!
 
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