"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im just about to go backpacking round South America and wondering if any DJs have advice?

Stuff in my favour: girls far away from home, wanting an adventure and cut loose

Stuff not in my favour: staying in hostels.

Anyone has experience of this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maverick you've obviously never done it, or else you would tell otherwise.
 
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Think of it that way: if, in a normal situation, you'd try to kiss and sex a girl, and she'd accept/refuse with a 50/50 chance, then on holiday it will be 80/20.

I'm just pulling numbers out of my arse, but it's easy. But do still make the move because it doesn't mean girls will proactively rape you ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Bump!" to the old topic instead of new one.

I'm backpacking in Europe right now. I will be staying at hostels and would like to try the hostel game.

How should I go about it? Book a bed in a dorm to meet other people easier,or get a more expensive private room instead? How to hint women that I would like to get to know them better and we regret things we didn't do, ...

English is not my first language, and so far I have met women only through my social circle, it's a bit of a challenge at first to try new ways. :)
 
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People (girls) travelling are generally a lot more open to sexual experimentation.
Combine that with the knowledge that you probably won't ever see any of these chicks ever again, and the fact that there will be an endless supply of new females at each hostel.
It all leads to a genuine attitude of not giving a ****, which is a massive alpha trait.

So just have a good time and travel with no regrets.!
 
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