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Hooking up w/ a neighbor

Vulpine

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Golden Arms said:
Bringing plates home and bumping into someone you're banging in the hallway right outside your door..could be.
Does my breath smell ok?
Is my hair messed up?
OMG! It could be this...
OMG! It could be that!!!

Steady, dude.
You're Golden Arms.
WTF do you care?

It could be sketchy, it could be scary, it could be a 3-way trying to happen.

Pegging the upstairs chick worked fine until her lease was up. If nothing else, use this next-door chick as a pivot. But, it's pretty certain, seeing as how you are demonstrating the assumption of the sale, that you're going to ƒuck her...
:cheer:

Since it's easy for a DJ such as yourself to hit it, it must also be easy for a DJ such as yourself to have a "mature" conversation afterwards according to however you want to have that conversation.

You are here just bragging about this FWB + Next door benefits waiting to happen, come on, now... sheesh. Besides, what is she going to do? Move out when her lease is up? OH NO!!! ONETOTHEITISIMAREVERTORETARD!
I think I know what I'm going to do ;)
Convert? Or... nothing?
Don't tease us, be a scientist and deliver the DJ experiment goods...
FR this sh∑t.
 

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Just took her out for drinks. She seems cool. Good conversation all night. No kissing or anything but she's super friendly.

She offered to pay, I paid, she said she'll pay next time. She's also moving out and moving back to Cali in September.
 
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Golden Arms said:
Just took her out for drinks. She seems cool. Good conversation all night. No kissing or anything but she's super friendly.

She offered to pay, I paid, she said she'll pay next time. She's also moving out and moving back to Cali in September.
Golden Arms,

Are you a liar? I thought we were friends...
 

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Yeah I think there are potential problems with neighbours just like with dating coworkers. Unless I thought they might end up being the love of my life I would try to avoid these situations.
 
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