"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys just after some advice,Im a regular at this nightclub on a weekly basis,now the hottest girls goto this place,and my problems is not being able to hook up, or do more, as i would at anyother club where im not known, but here once you hook up ur automatically branded as a player and girls will run a mile im guessing,whats the best way around this in such a environment its gotten to a point this girl was going to go in for a kiss and i didnt follow up and shes goes are you gay ,mind you i got 100s of ppl watching,on top of this how would you handle women approaching ya whom ya know,whilst talking to other women especially when your very well known in there from the female side of things ? any ideas cheers guys :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop worrying about what other people think and live your life for yourself. I live in a town where there are probably as many single women in the town as there are at your club and I don't have a problem. Its all in your attitude and perspective.
 
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w00t ignore the people at the clubscene who think like that, just enjoy it. and who gives a ratts ass about others. it's the club scene, where half the girls walk around with their "I'm not a SLUT shields up" and the other half is like.. OH MY GOD HE'S SO HOT!!!
 
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Yo man what club is this? Im in melbo too
 
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Stop worrying about what other people...
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LOL>..not posssible when you are doing the whole "im cool" thing... other cool people will be constantly monitoring your coolness and if it drops then they will kick you out of the cool group... Then you will be a nobody , which aint cool.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon said:
LOL>..not posssible when you are doing the whole "im cool" thing... other cool people will be constantly monitoring your coolness and if it drops then they will kick you out of the cool group... Then you will be a nobody , which aint cool.
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Wrong. Every cool person I've met, didn't give a sh1t what anyone else did. The cool people did their own thing no matter how far out there. It was the followers who wanted to be cool, who always monitored their coolness. Be a leader, not a follower and you'll be cool.
 
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Wrong. Every cool person I've met, didn't give a sh1t what anyone else did. The cool people did their own thing no matter how far out there. It was the followers who wanted to be cool, who always monitored their coolness. Be a leader, not a follower and you'll be cool.
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LOL... Cool folks always make it sound so simple to be cool... I guess thats part of their coolness.

I case you are wondering, yes i am cool.. always have been.. but i will admit that cool aint easy cause with every environment there are cultural guidlines and expectations which your coolness must still fall within no matter ho radical you want to seem... and remember this is 2008 is most cool dudes do what women want to see them do and most women wanna see coo dudes who look and act like the latest greatest pop stars on MTV
 
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Girls don't run from guys who are successful with women, they run to them to see what the fuss is about.
 
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here once you hook up ur automatically branded as a player and girls will run a mile im guessing
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That's right, you are guessing. Stop assuming what people will do.

this girl was going to go in for a kiss and i didnt follow up and shes goes are you gay
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She was sexually interested in you and you didn't cave in to kiss her like every other guy, and that was noticeably different to her, so she didn't know what else to do or say because she's not used to that happening to her, so she jumped to asking you your sexual orientation.

All that really happened was that you didn't cave in to her immediately like every other guy and that she has to work a bit more to get you. Nothing wrong with that.

how would you handle women approaching ya whom ya know,whilst talking to other women
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Smile, be polite and cheerful, make small, fun chit chat for a moment and then get back to the business at hand, and act like this happens all the time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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