"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hooking Up In Club Where Ur A Regular..

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Hey guys just after some advice,Im a regular at this nightclub on a weekly basis,now the hottest girls goto this place,and my problems is not being able to hook up, or do more, as i would at anyother club where im not known, but here once you hook up ur automatically branded as a player and girls will run a mile im guessing,whats the best way around this in such a environment its gotten to a point this girl was going to go in for a kiss and i didnt follow up and shes goes are you gay ,mind you i got 100s of ppl watching,on top of this how would you handle women approaching ya whom ya know,whilst talking to other women especially when your very well known in there from the female side of things ? any ideas cheers guys :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stop worrying about what other people think and live your life for yourself. I live in a town where there are probably as many single women in the town as there are at your club and I don't have a problem. Its all in your attitude and perspective.
 
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w00t ignore the people at the clubscene who think like that, just enjoy it. and who gives a ratts ass about others. it's the club scene, where half the girls walk around with their "I'm not a SLUT shields up" and the other half is like.. OH MY GOD HE'S SO HOT!!!
 
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Yo man what club is this? Im in melbo too
 
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Stop worrying about what other people...
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LOL>..not posssible when you are doing the whole "im cool" thing... other cool people will be constantly monitoring your coolness and if it drops then they will kick you out of the cool group... Then you will be a nobody , which aint cool.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonGorgon said:
LOL>..not posssible when you are doing the whole "im cool" thing... other cool people will be constantly monitoring your coolness and if it drops then they will kick you out of the cool group... Then you will be a nobody , which aint cool.
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Wrong. Every cool person I've met, didn't give a sh1t what anyone else did. The cool people did their own thing no matter how far out there. It was the followers who wanted to be cool, who always monitored their coolness. Be a leader, not a follower and you'll be cool.
 
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Wrong. Every cool person I've met, didn't give a sh1t what anyone else did. The cool people did their own thing no matter how far out there. It was the followers who wanted to be cool, who always monitored their coolness. Be a leader, not a follower and you'll be cool.
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LOL... Cool folks always make it sound so simple to be cool... I guess thats part of their coolness.

I case you are wondering, yes i am cool.. always have been.. but i will admit that cool aint easy cause with every environment there are cultural guidlines and expectations which your coolness must still fall within no matter ho radical you want to seem... and remember this is 2008 is most cool dudes do what women want to see them do and most women wanna see coo dudes who look and act like the latest greatest pop stars on MTV
 
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Girls don't run from guys who are successful with women, they run to them to see what the fuss is about.
 
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here once you hook up ur automatically branded as a player and girls will run a mile im guessing
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That's right, you are guessing. Stop assuming what people will do.

this girl was going to go in for a kiss and i didnt follow up and shes goes are you gay
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She was sexually interested in you and you didn't cave in to kiss her like every other guy, and that was noticeably different to her, so she didn't know what else to do or say because she's not used to that happening to her, so she jumped to asking you your sexual orientation.

All that really happened was that you didn't cave in to her immediately like every other guy and that she has to work a bit more to get you. Nothing wrong with that.

how would you handle women approaching ya whom ya know,whilst talking to other women
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Smile, be polite and cheerful, make small, fun chit chat for a moment and then get back to the business at hand, and act like this happens all the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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