"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hooked up with girl; akward now

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itishe said:
I think she might be into me.
Yes, as much as your finger was "into"' her! :rolleyes:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Forms

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Way too much over analyzing here dude. She's practically begging you. Call her up and ask her out on a date. She's into you. She has been for a month now. She's just waiting for you to man up and make a move.
 

The Shocker

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Dude, wtf? You've been thinking about eye contact and shiat since FEB 14?? Are you going to ask her out or not??
 
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itishe said:
Best to ask her to go to a movie or something?
Take her to KFC - and after you finish eating your chicken say, "It was finger licking good" and then start licking your fingers and begin to moan like a biatch!!!!!!!!
 

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do i have to flick your nutsack. the girl likes you. take her out on a date
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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itishe

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I asked her out to a movie date tonight. She said she had to work till 11 PM so she couldn't. I asked her if she planned on doing anything after, she said she was going to hang out with a friend but probably just go home for the night.

I'm going to see if she wants to do something tomorrow.

Would it be wise to ask her, "say are you afraid of my ex, or am I picking up the wrong signals?" if she turns this date down.
 
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Don't bother her if she didn't suggest an alternative!!!

You should have said "When do you want to go to KFC? Or to such and such? If she denies you then, forgetaboutit!!!
 

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itishe said:
I asked her out to a movie date tonight. She said she had to work till 11 PM so she couldn't. I asked her if she planned on doing anything after, she said she was going to hang out with a friend but probably just go home for the night.

I'm going to see if she wants to do something tomorrow.

Would it be wise to ask her, "say are you afraid of my ex, or am I picking up the wrong signals?" if she turns this date down.

Seriously you need to read the Bible!! You've got MAJOR one-itis for this chick and now all your time and energy is going to be spent analyzing her moves and motives.

You asked her out she said she had work until 11. If she was REALLY interested she would've suggested another time when she's free. You have to let the storm die down a bit before jumping right back into things. She just apologized to your ex, she's not going to turn right around and hang out with you. You need to give it some time to boil over and then you can go back after her.


Right now you need to focus on other chicks and stop posting about this girl.




PIMP
 
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Pimp-sicle said:
...stop posting about this girl.PIMP
Don't tell him this...I think I have a few more "finger" jokes left in my comedic repertoire!!!!
 

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Holy **** you guys go so many directions even the CIA would have a hard time tracking this ****.

1. I have a date with a different chick tomorrow, and my ex is still likes me a ton. I don't have one-itis. I have plates going. I could make a post saying, "I have a date with a girl tomorrow" and some jackass would still pop in "OMG duderr, you have like one-itis because you're going on a date. Real men don't goooes on dates we just **** chicks dur"

2. Don't tell me to go for this broad, then tell me not to. Make up your minds if you plan on giving advice. This ***** is giving me "buying signals" as recently as Thursday and now suddenly the iron isn't hot? Either A) you're wrong (which won't be the first time) B) she's just staring at me. If women are this ****ed up count me as going gay.

3. You guys are too much into the black and white scenario. God forbid she be telling the truth about having to work. When I tell girls I'm busy, that's it. I don't suggest another time, I just say, "well hang out some other time" or don't say anything at all.

I asked her to do something tomorrow. If she doesn't bite then I'm not going to try to attempt to set up any more dates. Holy **** people.

Not to get heated, but damn this **** gets annoying. I'm one of the few people on this forum who isn't a KBJ, I actually try to go out with women and I seem to get more flack then the guys sitting behind their computer writing creepy stalk reports about the 2.2 second conversation they had and asking us to analyze it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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