When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, OP thinks that chasing a girl who has clearly blown him off after one date/make out session isn't desperate. He said I, the guy who had two actual gf's for a long time and was dating other women on top of that needs more experience in the real world. LOLOLOL. OP, note I'm not the only one who thinks you are acting clingy and desperate. YOU ARE. GET A CLUE.All of this reeks of desperation. Texting and calling and then texting when she doesn't answer is going to creep her out. I personally think you've dug yourself in a hole you won't be able to get out of.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol sure you are azzhole, you couldn't get pvssy from a dead cat and you know it. Not sure how texting her 4 days later is chasing, but then again you clearly are a keyboard jockey moron.You're clueless AF. You ARE being clingy. She isn't hanging out with you. If she was you wouldn't be on here chasing her and complaining you should have banged her when you had the chance.
I had two girlfriends/relationships at the same time (one ended a week ago) and I've dated many just recently WHILE I had the two gf's. I actually slept with these women. You went on ONE date and made out and are now trying to act like you were getting married and oh, "did more than just kiss". I have more real world experience that you will ever have bud. But go ahead and keep chasing the one girl you "had" for one date and try to tell me I need more real world when I had TWO actual gf's for 7 months (one of them 10 years) and am dating other women on top of that.
Says the guy who told a guy who has FAR more experience than him and women in his life that I need more real world experience because I and ever other guy here who actually does sleep with women told you she isn't interested you &^&(*&R%. Then you talk smack to the other posters about their contacts not being in. You're the a hole you little boy. Pray you never face me face to face little boy.Lol sure you are azzhole, you couldn't get pvssy from a dead cat and you know it. Not sure how texting her 4 days later is chasing, but then again you clearly are a keyboard jockey moron.
Welcome to the ignore list = you are too much of a moron/pvssy to engage in a debate. Anyone can type anything on here you reject. You typing that you are somehow some stud means about as much as the shvt I wiped from my azz a few hours ago.Says the guy who told a guy who has FAR more experience than him and women in his life that I need more real world experience because I and ever other guy here who actually does sleep with women told you she isn't interested you &^&(*&R%. Then you talk smack to the other posters about their contacts not being in. You're the a hole you little boy. Pray you never face me face to face little boy.
You didn't even bang her and everyone else in the thread has told him she is not interested....to a guy who has a gf, and just broke up with his other gf, both of which I was actually sleeping with...while also dating other women...OK tough guy. Welcome to the ignore list. Go ahead and keep chasing her until she texts you asking you for advice about how to suck off the guy she is actually sleeping with.
Trollllll....
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hold on... your mom is finishing me off. I'll take a look at the flood of likes your posts are getting in a few mins.Look at all the people agreeing with me/up voting me OP....